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Old 07-18-2008, 06:39 AM
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Hazelden Reading

Today's thought from Hazelden is:

As one goes through life one learns that if you don't paddle your own canoe, you don't move.
--Katharine Hepburn

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I appreciate the fact that you remain friendly and even-tempered even though I don't always follow your advice.

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Friends can disagree without having to end their relationship. I might have trouble sponsoring someone who never attends meetings, someone who has frequent relapses, or someone who complains about his or her problems without ever being willing to attempt the Steps. But occasional disagreements are a part of life.

A sponsor's suggestions aren't commands, any more than the Twelve Steps are. As a sponsor, I only make suggestions; even though they're based on my experience, I'm not always right about what will work for another person. And I may misjudge what another person's timetable is. I'm not infallible. I try not to let my ego get in the way, to feel hurt or angry when you need to try something on your own. Learning to make your own decisions is necessary to growth.

Each of us makes his or her own way through the process of recovery. We learn more from our own experiences, good and bad, than from anything we read in a book or hear at a meeting.

Today, I learn from my experience.

You are reading from the book:

If You Want What We Have by Joan Larkin
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