used in rehab
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: USA
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I hate this for you - I grew in ways I never thought I wanted to, through chronic relapses or just plain old using again from my AS. One day I realized that I was done. Enough was enough.
And I started to let go and detach in a more complete way, no collect phone calls, no money, no coming to my house - and I got on with my life. Learned that I could be happy and ok whether or not he was using. I never really knew that before - I was just so addicted to him and the chaos and drama.
We just can't do it for them. I picture our HP on the front of a train going down the track - and if I can just get out of the way He can work his magic. So I did - and He did!
Love in recovery,
Dottie Lou
And I started to let go and detach in a more complete way, no collect phone calls, no money, no coming to my house - and I got on with my life. Learned that I could be happy and ok whether or not he was using. I never really knew that before - I was just so addicted to him and the chaos and drama.
We just can't do it for them. I picture our HP on the front of a train going down the track - and if I can just get out of the way He can work his magic. So I did - and He did!
Love in recovery,
Dottie Lou
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