He is SOOOO Convincing!
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He is SOOOO Convincing!
I went a little nuts last night! I overheard my AH on the phone, sounding so arrogant, calm, reasonable, SANE - Don't know what he was saying, I just know that tone.
I don't know why, but it just hit me, and made me nuts for a while! I realized it's not just his words, my AH has the ability to get so arrogant that his posture and tone, more than anything else, are huge crazy person triggers for me! I had forgotten that. The divorce is close to being finalized, the thought of negotiating with him when he's up on that high-horse makes me want to
. I know I have to block the tone, listen to the words and know what I know, but I really have got to get a handle on this.
Any suggestions?
I don't know why, but it just hit me, and made me nuts for a while! I realized it's not just his words, my AH has the ability to get so arrogant that his posture and tone, more than anything else, are huge crazy person triggers for me! I had forgotten that. The divorce is close to being finalized, the thought of negotiating with him when he's up on that high-horse makes me want to
. I know I have to block the tone, listen to the words and know what I know, but I really have got to get a handle on this.Any suggestions?
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