aztchr

Got a call this morning, that my sister walked out of my parents house again.
This time when she left, my parents told her she isn't allowed to come back.
She wanted to see the guy she's with and they wouldn't let him come over to the house or her to have the car. (Finally, they didn't give her the car!)
So she said a few choice words, packed a backpack, and left.

This all happening after she came home for 3 days to crash. We had all the support and resources ready for her, but she's just not ready to help herself.
She just wanted a safe place to crash for a few days and now the cycle starts again.

My mom is so angry and says she doesn't care about her anymore, etc. I know it stems from hurt and disappointment. She probably thought she could still help her.

I'm so thankful for my program and really staying true to working on myself.
I just listened to my mom and said thanks for letting me know. It does give me a heads up in case my sister tries to call me or show up at my apartment.

Thanks for listening. It helps to just write it all out as it happens so I can keep the focus on detaching with love from a distance.

caileesnana

:praying for your parents. I know how hard this is for them, but sounds like they are making progress.
susan

lostparent

Also sending prayers for all of you. An a special prayer for your little niece that she is kept safe until your sister reaches her bottom.

havehope

I am sorry your sister isn't ready yet. I know this causes a lot of pain to you and your family. I am glad that you are working your program.
Sending prayers for your sister to want to get better soon.
HUGS

hope213

i know the pain your parents & you are going thru. take care of yourself. prayers for you & your family.

rahsue

I hope this new year has better hope for her. and glad to hear your parents stepped up to the plate regarding the car