Weird, weird, weird
Weird, weird, weird
Okay guys you can put this in the annals of weird addict behavior. Last Tuesday at 7:30 in the morning I get a message from my daughter from her phone saying that she was not coming for Christmas. And that she did not love me. This was strange as we have been getting along lately. I was temporarily sent for a loop but quickly recovered. I was okay with a nice quiet Christmas with my husband and my dog babies. I just got a message from her from the abf's phone saying "What is happening tomorrow?" It seems that she had lost her phone two weeks ago. It was the kind you buy minutes for. I explained that I thought she was not coming. She denies sending the messages to me and said she is planning on coming and I think that she will. Two Saturdays ago I left a message on her phone asking if she was still coming for Christmas. When she did not answer I sent the same message on the abf's phone and she answered me on that one. Well if you are not confused by now, I sure am I don't know what to believe but the message she sent Tuesday was as if she were answering me and it was so early in the morning. If someone had stolen the phone and put minutes on it they would have seen the message and maybe decided to play a trick on me. I don't know. Addicts do strange things, but she has never done that before. Never told me that she did not love me. She always ended messages and meetings with an I love you. So I guess she is coming tomorrow unless the Mr Hyde part comes out again Hugs and sorry if I confused anyone. Marle
That is pretty weird. That would have sent me for a loop as well!
For the most part it sounds like someone has her phone and is just being an idiot. Even at your daughter's worse if this isn't normal behavior I'd be safe to guess it wasn't her. The only thing I question is you have to have a pass code to retrieve your messages unless whoever took her phone set it up with a new pass code. I guess only time will tell.
For the most part it sounds like someone has her phone and is just being an idiot. Even at your daughter's worse if this isn't normal behavior I'd be safe to guess it wasn't her. The only thing I question is you have to have a pass code to retrieve your messages unless whoever took her phone set it up with a new pass code. I guess only time will tell.
It was a text message so if they put minutes on her phone the text would automatically come up I think. And since the message I got sounded like it was answering a question I guess anything is possible. It could also be her abf because he is controlling and that would be something that he might do to cause a problem. I am sure that he is worried about any contact that I have with her that she may decide that she wants to leave him and get clean. Or she could have been in some kind of a black out and did not remember or maybe she was jonesing and wanted to be mean or or or....the possibilities are endless Hugs, Marle
My first thought was that the abf took her phone - to check up on her or control her or maybe he doesn't like the fact that the two of you have been communicating. If she's never said anything like that to you before, I'd be more inclined to believe that it was someone else that did it to be cruel. But whatever really happened, I'm relieved to hear that things are not as they appeared last week.
I'm glad to hear that your daughter is coming and I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas together.
I'm glad to hear that your daughter is coming and I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas together.
((Marle)))
Now isn't that just the funniest thing, after we had that big discussion over her sending that not nice message last week? Here it's all done and over, and it probably wasn't even her that sent it!
Somehow as unfunny as it was last week, it sure makes me chuckle tonight.
Plus, I am so happy she has called and wanted to know what's going on tomorrow.
Hugs, and Merry Christmas to you,
Now isn't that just the funniest thing, after we had that big discussion over her sending that not nice message last week? Here it's all done and over, and it probably wasn't even her that sent it!
Somehow as unfunny as it was last week, it sure makes me chuckle tonight.
Plus, I am so happy she has called and wanted to know what's going on tomorrow.
Hugs, and Merry Christmas to you,
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Now that sounds more like it to me. I don't believe for one minute that it was Megan.
I have bets on the abf or someone who is messing with you that has the phone. She had no reason at all to say that to you. Not when you were getting along.
I'm so glad she is coming to spend some time with you on Christmas. Enjoy it.
Hugs...........Lo
I have bets on the abf or someone who is messing with you that has the phone. She had no reason at all to say that to you. Not when you were getting along.
I'm so glad she is coming to spend some time with you on Christmas. Enjoy it.
Hugs...........Lo
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I actually did have the thought that someone else might have texted that original message back when you posted about it. Not because addicts aren't moody and unpredictable and nuts, but just because your relationship with your AD sounds much like the one I have with mine and I couldn't imagine mine saying those things out of the blue at this point. At any rate, this is good news and have a loving and CALM holiday!
(((Marle)))
I'm so glad Megan is coming for Christmas. I do believe her about not sending you that message. We have cell phones left at our restaurant all the time, and my boss was being "funny" one day and responded to a text (nothing as hateful as what you got, though). I'd vote for the ABF doing it, too.
We A's do a lot of stupid stuff while we're using, but that does sound totally out of character for Megan, especially since you've been talking more. I'm just glad you came here so we could "discuss it" and you didn't let it get you really down.
Hoping you 3 have a wonderful Christmas, as well your your furbabies!
Hugs and prayers!
Amy
I'm so glad Megan is coming for Christmas. I do believe her about not sending you that message. We have cell phones left at our restaurant all the time, and my boss was being "funny" one day and responded to a text (nothing as hateful as what you got, though). I'd vote for the ABF doing it, too.
We A's do a lot of stupid stuff while we're using, but that does sound totally out of character for Megan, especially since you've been talking more. I'm just glad you came here so we could "discuss it" and you didn't let it get you really down.
Hoping you 3 have a wonderful Christmas, as well your your furbabies!
Hugs and prayers!
Amy
That was my gut feeling when I first read that post, that it wasn't her, but I thought I'd sound like an idiot if I said that, or like I was just sticking up for her.
I agree with everyone else,
I don't think it was her. It didn't make any sense. Nevertheless, I am glad she's coming over.8
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I agree with everyone else,
I don't think it was her. It didn't make any sense. Nevertheless, I am glad she's coming over.8
(((...)))
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