Wallowing in indecision
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Thanks everyone. Your words are so true. I have been praying all day, trying to let go and let god.
Today my husband said for the first time that he wants to seek inpatient treatment. I will believe it when he's walking through the doors, but this is the first time he has verbalized it! I am trying not to get overly excited but him being away could be a good thing for both of us. Maybe if we are physically detached I can work on emotionally detaching.
GiveLove - thanks so much. I don't know what lurks under the word love. Maybe just a lot of obligation? The important thing is I am starting to peel back the layers of this stinky onion so I can find out!
Today my husband said for the first time that he wants to seek inpatient treatment. I will believe it when he's walking through the doors, but this is the first time he has verbalized it! I am trying not to get overly excited but him being away could be a good thing for both of us. Maybe if we are physically detached I can work on emotionally detaching.
GiveLove - thanks so much. I don't know what lurks under the word love. Maybe just a lot of obligation? The important thing is I am starting to peel back the layers of this stinky onion so I can find out!
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Take your time peeling back the layers. Be tender with yourself. Those layers represent our humanity and our ability to bond to other people....once you know what they all are (obligation, guilt, fear, love) and what the whole story is, you'll be better equipped to do what you need to do for YOU.
Sending you strength, prayers and hope, friend
GL
Take your time peeling back the layers. Be tender with yourself. Those layers represent our humanity and our ability to bond to other people....once you know what they all are (obligation, guilt, fear, love) and what the whole story is, you'll be better equipped to do what you need to do for YOU.
Sending you strength, prayers and hope, friend
GL
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