Kelsh ~~My sister went through hell and back with her ex-husband , they had the story book house on the lake , all the expensive cars and trips but her husband was just plain evil . Finally after they divorced she met a great guy years later and moved away from the madness , both my niece and nephew are addicts . My sister has been to hell and back with her son and now her daughter has started down the road behind him . She worries from afar and is dying inside with all that is going on . Their father just carries on with his own twisted life and doesn't bother with his children . So my mom feels like she has to take care of the world . I don't know anyone with a bigger heart but I worry that is too much for her , she is 67 now and should be relaxing not worrying . :(