Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water
Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water
The Great White Line Snorting Son of Stupidity has someone help him find your MySpace profile because he's curious as to what you've been up to!
"God grant me the serenity to stop me from Grrrrrrrrrr
I have an idea who guided my exabf in his search. For whatever reason this person chose to do ths knowing what this man has put me through in the past.........I hope the little travel trailor in which they reside is infested by a swarm of angry horse flys.
So he sends me this e-mail and OMG.......whoever helped him out should have really shown him how to use the spell check feature. But anyways.....He expresses his wants, desires and needs........Oh and of course his disapproval of my new life and how much I've changed. HIS DISAPPROVAL!! DO YOU BELIEVE THAT? HMPF!!
Blah Blah Blah.....Wah Wah Wah.....on and on about how he's tired of being alone and how much his life sucks and how I can change all of that for him.
Wait a sec.......back it up...."HOW I CAN CHANGE THAT FOR HIM"??? Alrighty then....fast forward to a big fat 'NO THE HECK I CAN OR WILL!!"
Then he says "I could be out there smoking crack right now, but I'm not. I could go smoke a joint. That always made everything better. I could go get drunk, but I know I'd end up with a headache."
I honestly have to really try at this point to understand what it was I ever saw in this moron!
So as I sat there repeating the serenity prayer over and over and over again, it occured to me I could...........rather than respond with the few choice words I had for him..........but I could have the IP address from the computer he was using blocked so he could no longer access my IP address. So that's exactly what I did. I had it blocked.
I could have changed my identity, my e-mail address and "hid" from him, but why should I have to change my exsistance ONCE AGAIN for this idiot??
My blogs have gained the attention of 3 newspaper editors who have sent me e-mails and swear up and down I should have my own column!! What a hoot that would be huh??
One of these days my writings may actually take me somewhere I never thought I'd be and I am not going to let that ..........that........ disrupt my life anymore than he already has PERIOD!
"God grant me the serenity to stop me from Grrrrrrrrrr
I have an idea who guided my exabf in his search. For whatever reason this person chose to do ths knowing what this man has put me through in the past.........I hope the little travel trailor in which they reside is infested by a swarm of angry horse flys.
So he sends me this e-mail and OMG.......whoever helped him out should have really shown him how to use the spell check feature. But anyways.....He expresses his wants, desires and needs........Oh and of course his disapproval of my new life and how much I've changed. HIS DISAPPROVAL!! DO YOU BELIEVE THAT? HMPF!!
Blah Blah Blah.....Wah Wah Wah.....on and on about how he's tired of being alone and how much his life sucks and how I can change all of that for him.
Wait a sec.......back it up...."HOW I CAN CHANGE THAT FOR HIM"??? Alrighty then....fast forward to a big fat 'NO THE HECK I CAN OR WILL!!"
Then he says "I could be out there smoking crack right now, but I'm not. I could go smoke a joint. That always made everything better. I could go get drunk, but I know I'd end up with a headache."
I honestly have to really try at this point to understand what it was I ever saw in this moron!
So as I sat there repeating the serenity prayer over and over and over again, it occured to me I could...........rather than respond with the few choice words I had for him..........but I could have the IP address from the computer he was using blocked so he could no longer access my IP address. So that's exactly what I did. I had it blocked.
I could have changed my identity, my e-mail address and "hid" from him, but why should I have to change my exsistance ONCE AGAIN for this idiot??
My blogs have gained the attention of 3 newspaper editors who have sent me e-mails and swear up and down I should have my own column!! What a hoot that would be huh??
One of these days my writings may actually take me somewhere I never thought I'd be and I am not going to let that ..........that........ disrupt my life anymore than he already has PERIOD!
I did block him LOL. I blocked his entire computer. I had no idea you could do that, but apparently so.
As much as it should be giving me warm fuzzies to imagine him pacing back and forth wondering why he can't access my page anymore it strangely doesn't. It makes me sad to think he's done this to himself and as I can walk away, he can't. He has to live with himself and the mistakes he's made. That in itself has to be hell on earth.
As much as it should be giving me warm fuzzies to imagine him pacing back and forth wondering why he can't access my page anymore it strangely doesn't. It makes me sad to think he's done this to himself and as I can walk away, he can't. He has to live with himself and the mistakes he's made. That in itself has to be hell on earth.
Kris, Sending some hugs. Even in your dark moments you are the funniest person I know Or maybe that is what makes you so funny. You have walked through the shadows and made it out fine. Hugs, Marle
Thinking like that is the ONLY way I was able to put one foot in front of the other and eventually function pregnant & 42 when xah moved in with his girlfriend in 2003!!!!!
Well, I looked and looked but could not find it....
:eyesroll: and it probably won't work.. but honestly, that is all I can think to say Kris.. Just rolling my eyes... and a big sigh attempting to find patience.
What part of GONE can't these guys understand?
:eyesroll: and it probably won't work.. but honestly, that is all I can think to say Kris.. Just rolling my eyes... and a big sigh attempting to find patience.
What part of GONE can't these guys understand?
Kris,
You got it girl!!!! Good for you for not stepping back into his BS. That was a great idea to have the computer blocked. Just be careful that he does not try to use a differnet one. Maybe you could set your profile to private for now, this way he can't get to you again, not sure if he could still send emails.
Keeping you in my prayers,
Hugs
You got it girl!!!! Good for you for not stepping back into his BS. That was a great idea to have the computer blocked. Just be careful that he does not try to use a differnet one. Maybe you could set your profile to private for now, this way he can't get to you again, not sure if he could still send emails.
Keeping you in my prayers,
Hugs
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You go, girl!! You did great!! My ex is computer-illiterate, but someone told him I had a myspace, so he got the guy to find it and then called whining about how it made him feel that I was (and I am quoting here) "ADVERTISING myself as single on the internet"!!!!!!
You'd have thought I was on some porn site propositioning underage boys or something the way he was acting. Cracked me up!!!
BTW-I think you would be a GREAT writer!!
You'd have thought I was on some porn site propositioning underage boys or something the way he was acting. Cracked me up!!!
BTW-I think you would be a GREAT writer!!
Incredible.......LOL
Well, I've reset all my privacy settings. Now no one can see anything unless I approve it. It sort of stinks because that means my blogs aren't public either. Sigh........I guess there is some sort of lesson in here about certain sacrifices in the name of a peaceful exsistance.
Sometimes these reminders help us remember who we are today and why we left yesterday behind us. Another gift in strange wrapping perhaps.
You're doing fine, Loves, just fine. If it pains him to see that, it's on him and no longer your problem. Isn't that a relief?
That said, he's a jerk and a sap to do this and not respect your privacy and your life today. A pox on people who think they still have any hold or control over us.
Embrace the lesson with gratitude that you are no longer connected to his sick behaviour.
It's a good thing I am posting here this morning, I could be out picking wings off flies or tripping old ladies. Yeah, right.
You're doing fine, Loves, just fine. If it pains him to see that, it's on him and no longer your problem. Isn't that a relief?
That said, he's a jerk and a sap to do this and not respect your privacy and your life today. A pox on people who think they still have any hold or control over us.
Embrace the lesson with gratitude that you are no longer connected to his sick behaviour.
It's a good thing I am posting here this morning, I could be out picking wings off flies or tripping old ladies. Yeah, right.
"I could be out there smoking crack right now, but I'm not. I could go smoke a joint. That always made everything better. I could go get drunk, but I know I'd end up with a headache."
Another trick you might try... delete anything he sends - unread. Why get yourself all upset? Take back your power.... and make your blogs public again. He can write all he wants ... but what do you care, if all you do is delete...delete... delete!
(((Loves)))
[QUOTE=BigSis;1479377] Take back your power.... and make your blogs public again. He can write all he wants ... but what do you care, if all you do is delete...delete... delete!
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Heck yea!! And that's just what I've done. Thank you sis!! delete.....delete....delete!! Perfect!
Thanks everybody!! Big squishy hugs to you all!
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Heck yea!! And that's just what I've done. Thank you sis!! delete.....delete....delete!! Perfect!
Thanks everybody!! Big squishy hugs to you all!
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