notsleepingwell

My daughter was doing sooo well, she had bought a cell phone and I put money on it for her. Was just waiting for rehab to call, was doing the methadone thang....and it seemed like I was getting my daughter back. She wasn't using anymore, was gaining weight, looking like a beautiful young woman again.

Her and the boyfriend were supposed to help me move on Aug 3rd. She called me on the 3rd and told me they had thrown her butt in jail for the w/e because she hadn't told them she moved. (Not sure if that was true or not). But that was the last I've heard from her. I've driven by the apt a few times...but either they really are not home, or they are not answering the door. She has not returned any of my text messages....

C'est la vie. I'm trying not to stress, I know there is nothing to do but wait. I figger either she has relapsed or she is in jail...(my phone will not accept collect calls). My grandson asked the other day where she was & I told him I didn't know. He wanted to invite them to swim in the new pool. So we drove by and he buzzed, but no answer.

Have I told you guys how much I despise addiction??

NSW

MsPINKAcres

((NSW))

I despise addiction too -

hate this is going on with your daughter -whatever it may be.

Will continue to keep you, her and your grandson in my thoughts & prayers.

Wishing you Serenity & Joy,
Rita

Ann

It's hard enough being the mother of an addict, but watching the grandchild wonder about mom would just make it so much harder I think.

I'm sending huge hugs, you are an angel and your grandson is blessed to have you.

Hugs

marle

Sending some hugs and prayers your way. Don't know what else to say except hang in there. I know that it hurts so much when you see that glimmer of hope and then it disappears so quickly. Hugs, Marle

caileesnana

I understand, too! I'm glad you have your grandchild w/ you, they bring happiness when nothing else does.

You are in my prayers,
susan

krhea75

I do understand! It just sucks some days.
krhea

hope213

((((nsw)))) i hope she will get out if she is in jail & go on the rehab. i know this is hard on you especially with the grandson. sending prayers for her & your family.

frankie_b

Addiction is a hateful beast. Yes, I so understand. It's just so hard to get a glimpse of an improving loved one and poof no contact, no knowing how or where she/he is. Ouch it hurts.
Had my share of that with AS.

Thank heavens you are in your grandchild's life! He is so fortunate to have your love
and stability. Enjoy his innocence, fun and love.
Big Hugs

greeteachday

(((((NSW))))))

Sending prayers she finds her way back to you again soon. Your grandson is so blessed to have you.

BigSis

NSW.... hugs and prayers. Your strength has long amazed me. Please know HP is walking with her...right this minute. As He is with you.


((((NotSleepingWell)))))