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Old 07-31-2007, 02:06 PM
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Saw AS this Weekend

We Went To See Our Older S Son This Weekend Took The Younger Ss With Us. We Also Invited As To Join Us For Dinner. He Told Us He Had His 30 Day Chip From Na. I Didnt Ask To See It. Iwas Encouraged That He Had To Leave Dinner Early To Make His Oxford House Meeting. He Told Me He Was Elected Secretary. So From What He "says" Hes Better. Were Not Getting Our Hopes Up Just Yet. Hes Still Complaining About The Guys In The House , So I Told Him To Investigate Another. Im Still Giving Him Money, He Gets Paid Friday, So This Will Truly Test His Responsibility. Just An Update Nothing New Really, I Hope Everyone Is Doing Well.
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Old 07-31-2007, 02:10 PM
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any baby steps forward is good news. I am happy for him and you!
blessings,
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Old 07-31-2007, 02:23 PM
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Sounds like you had a good visit. I am glad he wants to go to his meetings. I think you made a good response with the complaining about the other guys.
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Anything better is, well, better! I hope he continues on the path to recovery.
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Sending prayers that he continues on his path of recovery. Hugs, Marle
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Old 07-31-2007, 03:08 PM
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Laketime,

Continuing prayers for you and your family.

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Old 07-31-2007, 03:57 PM
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Wonderful news in my book, that he is working a program and you got a visit.
This just may be his time to go all the way!!!!! I am rooting for your son -
Hip Hip Hooray!! Today he is doing fine Hooray!( believe me, I'd settle for that)
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Old 07-31-2007, 04:06 PM
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(((Laketime)))
So glad to hear your son is in recovery. Heres praying he continues.

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Old 07-31-2007, 04:43 PM
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thank you for the update. i am happy you got your family together, that is always nice. i hope your a.s. continues on the road to recovery.every day clean is a miracle. i understand why u are not getting your hopes up but never give up hope.still praying for you & your son.
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Glad to hear he's doing good, hope he stays with it.
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Old 07-31-2007, 07:32 PM
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Lake, Glad to hear some positive news. It does a dad good to see all of his sons together for a while. Good for the brothers too.
Keep us posted, we take any little bit of positive news as a little bit of relief.

Hugs...........Lois
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Old 07-31-2007, 08:27 PM
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Time takes time. If you work your program and concentrate on YOU, then both of you will go forward. WHether he stays clean or has to go out and do a little more research, YOU"ll be getting healthier every day.

Just for today, you can enjoy the fact that he's clean,and you are learning more about recovery and boundaries.

Ain't life grand??

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Old 07-31-2007, 08:46 PM
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((((((Laketime))))) prayers for you my friend...I know how hard it is to have an addicted child. And prayers for your son, that his time is now and that he can beat this horrible disease.
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i'm just glad he is still at the house - that is positive news! blessings, k
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Great News. I Hope He Keeps Up The Good Work. Every Clean Is A Gift.
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Old 08-01-2007, 11:08 AM
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Lake,
It is great news that your AS is still working on his recovery. The best news was he left early and went to a meeting. At least you knew he wasn't running out to use. Keep working on your recovery too, and you both will come out stronger, even if one of you slip it won't be for as long as last time.
Hugs and prayers going out for you and your family
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Old 08-01-2007, 11:25 AM
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Lake -glad you were able to see him - it's got to be better than it was if he is still at the Oxford house!!

Progress not Perfection for them and for us - right?

continued good thoughts for you & your family,
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Old 08-01-2007, 05:27 PM
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Laketime, glad to hear that your son is making progress. Glad t hear that he has a sevice position. That will keep him committed.
That's what it's all about is having that committment.

My AS is sober, sitting in jail. That's what happens. We all have differnet ways of getting sober....Some Get the Nudge from the Judge.....others get the Nod from God.

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