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Old 07-20-2007, 09:34 PM
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Yeah, so accept any cash or gifts and try to hide your "gotcha" grin.
It counts for NOTHING in the courts.
Alot of them just like to "look good" and then tell everybody what all he gave you and what a %^&(^&*& you are.
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:36 PM
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thanks loves, i agree that hes finally getting "it". i'm so grateful for that. i just wish i could stop being a nervous wreck sometimes. a little later after that he went to the bathroom and was in there forever, so as soon as he came out, i immediately stared at his eyes and was listening for slurred speech. ARGGHH! he was fine of course, i think my taco dinner didn't agree with him, but i wish i could just stop my mind from bugging out.

don't beat yourself up. Trust is so easily broken, but it's one of the hardest things to get back. give yourself a break. You've been through alot. I'm sure your RAH understands.........he should anyways.
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:38 PM
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Well, Never I will be quite interested in hearing how you choose to handle this.
Was there a payback date on the loan?
There are at least a dozen ways to handle it. Curious to see what you choose!
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:40 PM
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well, finally, i think maybe he means well, but whether he continue to do well, thats a different story. i think maybe rather than be overly cautious, maybe you could keep the focus on you, and continue to let his actions speak louder. time will relax you. jmho, but what do i know?
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by liveweyerd View Post
Yeah, so accept any cash or gifts and try to hide your "gotcha" grin.
It counts for NOTHING in the courts.
Alot of them just like to "look good" and then tell everybody what all he gave you and what a %^&(^&*& you are.

HELL YEA!!
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:47 PM
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teke, i think you know a whole lot more than than you give yourself credit for! you're so right about focusing more on me, i have definately been failing at that lately. i just need to get back on track.
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by liveweyerd View Post
Well, Never I will be quite interested in hearing how you choose to handle this.
Was there a payback date on the loan?
There are at least a dozen ways to handle it. Curious to see what you choose!

I haven't done anything at this point. I'm waiting to see if my friend has any remorse over what she's done. I didn't say anything, because it was such a shock! I mean, what kind of person does something like that?
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:49 PM
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well i have to get to bed, i have to get up early, theres this "garage" sale in a really ritzy town nearby tommorrow where the woman is selling everything she owns cuz shes moving to another country. i'm hoping to get some really cool sh*t, cheap! everyone have a good and relaxing weekend!
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:52 PM
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I was totally on the other page again... just waiting.... saying, "Where's everyone?" I'm such an idiot!
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well, the childsupport is now paid through the court, deducted out of his check, its just started but he thinks that he is helping me out until it starts coming to me. why, i dont know., but for some reason, he makes it a point to mention that he is paying childsupport, when the court have him on record as being 30,000 in the rears.

he's still on probation, and i think that may have something to do with something, i don't know. he said today that he was gonna file for divorce, if thats what i want, he says that he's fine with getting a divorce if thats what i want. you know, i don't know, but it sure feels like he has something up his sleeves. i think for now that it might be best if i just keep my distance. i don't know yet if legal aide is gonna handle my case.
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I was totally on the other page again... just waiting.... saying, "Where's everyone?" I'm such an idiot!

That's 2 times tonight LOL.
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Old 07-20-2007, 09:58 PM
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I know.... I'm starting to wonder about myself!
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Hold your cards close when it comes to talking about divorce. I think he is "fishing" for info. And legal aide is not easy to get and takes time.

And if your gut says he has something up his sleeve...he does.
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I only refresh when I don't have the thanks button

So I do not understand what y'all are talking about
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Old 07-20-2007, 10:00 PM
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There's a nekked man in my bed and I've got papers on him.

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Old 07-20-2007, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted by teke View Post
well, the childsupport is now paid through the court, deducted out of his check, its just started but he thinks that he is helping me out until it starts coming to me. why, i dont know., but for some reason, he makes it a point to mention that he is paying childsupport, when the court have him on record as being 30,000 in the rears.

he's still on probation, and i think that may have something to do with something, i don't know. he said today that he was gonna file for divorce, if thats what i want, he says that he's fine with getting a divorce if thats what i want. you know, i don't know, but it sure feels like he has something up his sleeves. i think for now that it might be best if i just keep my distance. i don't know yet if legal aide is gonna handle my case.

Sounds to me like he's trying to guilt you into not filing for divorce honey. Sounds to me like he's trying to turn the mess HE made around all on you.
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Old 07-20-2007, 10:25 PM
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Oh, I forgot to tell everyone my exciting news..... I got DVR today! I'm such a loser, but I totally thought that was the coolest thing ever! You can record all your favorite shows and play them back whenever you want!

I sound like the commercial!
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Old 07-20-2007, 11:00 PM
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Hey,, I had my dessert and I am back. Kind of like loves and I were talking about up and down up and down.
Oh, I should behave! LOL
Nice cuppa chamomille tea he made me when we came out for smoke.

finally, we miss you. I know you are busy. And you are on your honeymoon.

Guess I will wander around the boards a bit.
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Old 07-20-2007, 11:27 PM
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Lmao! Go Live!
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Old 07-20-2007, 11:45 PM
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I really have something on my mind tonight. I thought I had about heard it all....but I did not really know until tonight that anons can be as big a cons as the As.
I am just disgusted.
No wonder hubby and I stay home most of the time.

BTW I never did finish fixing up the guest room, but I still get invited to his room each night. LOL
As I have not recanted my original....this is now a 2 bedroom home.
And still have his set just for him.
I'm not easy but I can be had.
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