OMG..........My dad's dead!!

Old 07-16-2007, 04:04 PM
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Exclamation OMG..........My dad's dead!!

I can't believe this! No one told us. My sister hadn't heard from my father for a while and google searched his name. He's gone. He died in a car accident Thursday morning. How can this happen? No one tried to contact us. I can't believe my dad is gone. I haven't seen him..............in so long. We never had a chance to get close. Why can't I cry? This man was my father.............
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I am so sorry. I can't believe no one contacted you. You are probably too stunned to cry right now, I don't know. I am so sorry.
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Old 07-16-2007, 04:09 PM
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I too am sorry....it will take time to work through all the emotions.

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Kris, I'm so sorry. It's so hard to lose a loved one, especially parents, even when we're not close to them. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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(((Kris))) So sorry that you had to find out this way. Sending prayers your way. Hugs, Marle
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I'm so sorry to hear of this loss right now you probably are thinking a hundred thoughts and in shock. Give it time and allow yourself to grieve and have a good cry. We are all here if u need us.
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Old 07-16-2007, 04:44 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in 1995 and it seems like yesterday. I'm sorry you never got close to him but I'm sure he'll be watching out for you now from above.
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Old 07-16-2007, 04:46 PM
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(((Loves))) My deepest sympathy. I'm sorry you had to find out the way you did.
When you get over the shock it will become reality to you, and maybe you can have a good cry. Remember the light is always on at SR.

Prayers for you and your family............Lois
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Loves,

I'm so sorry.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm so sorry Kris. It's not fair that things like that happen in the lives of people as nice as you. My heart is with you tonight.

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Loves, what terrible news and a terrible way to find out. I wish there were something I could do. I can keep you and your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers and send big hugs to you. God will get you through this, you know he will.
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Kris,
I am sooooo sorry that this happened to you. I am sending prayers to you. It is not fair that you and your family had to fine out the way you did.
I am here for you if you need me.
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Thank you all for being here. The tears are starting to come. This is all I have. An artical in a newspaper. This is the last picture I have. It doesn't seem real........this man who used to take me to the Nutcracker Ballet every year around Christmas time when I was little. This is all that's left. This is what I got to see. It's not fair. It just doesn't seem real.
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Old 07-16-2007, 05:24 PM
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My deepest sympathys Loves.

Finding out this way will likely be harder on the empotions, try to feel it all now rather than prolong the grief
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Old 07-16-2007, 05:29 PM
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Loves,

Unfortunately, life is not fair, I wish it was.

Take the time to grieve, to work through the loss.

The HP makes all the final decisions, when we are born and when we die, we do not.

My heart goes out to you in your time of loss.
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What a shock. I am so sorry for your loss.

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I'm so sorry to hear about this.
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Old 07-16-2007, 05:43 PM
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(((Loves))) Sorry for your loss.
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Oh Kris, I am so sorry! I wish I had something profound to say to help take away the pain, but I can only offer my prayers and my support. Please take care of yourself.
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I'm here for you honey... for anything you need!
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