OMG..........My dad's dead!!

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Old 07-16-2007, 05:53 PM
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Ohhhh, Loves!!!
My deepest sympathy!! And what a way to find out!!! Prayers going out for the family!!
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:06 PM
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Loves- You will be in my prayers tonight.
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:13 PM
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Coming on late Kris. I am so very sorry. I am extending my sympathy in your time of loss.

You will grieve and life often isn't fair. Your HP is holding him now.. and you as well.
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:32 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose a parent, and to find out in this way.. I'm so sorry. I understand the shock, as I learned of my dad's death in a similar manner. Sending prayers that you and your family will find comfort during this difficult time.
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:35 PM
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Kris,
I'm so sorry. May God be with you and yours during this time.
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:42 PM
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loves, i am so sorry. i know this has to be hard finding out like this & it is not fair.prayers being said for your dad,you & your sister. hugs,
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:42 PM
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Love I AM SOO sorry for ur lose and especially the way you found out..

its not easy to hear about ur father being gone and knowing you didnt get to spend that time with him.

it hurts im sure i will pray for u that God will comfort you through this..
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:43 PM
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Kris,

I am so very sorry for your loss. You might not be able to cry now, but in time you'll be able to process all those emotions. You may be angry, sad, ok, happy, and hysterical all in the same day - and it's all normal!

It's hard when you lose someone that you haven't seen or spoken with in awhile. I know I felt some guilt for not being in contact more, and for not knowing that the last time I spoke with my dear friend really would be the LAST TIME.

We're here for you. 24/7 and we'll keep a light on for ya.

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Old 07-16-2007, 06:54 PM
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Oh ((((((Loves))))) I am so sorry. Give yourself time to process... it is rather sudden. If he had been sick for a while you would have been more prepared.

Since you haven't been spending much time with him lately a distance developed. I am sure he knew you love him and had some fond memories of him.

You have been through a lot in the past several years now it one more thing. You know we are here to walk with you in this one....
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:55 PM
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Loves,

I'm so sorry! I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but all I have is hugs and prayers...

I lost my dad on August 19 of last year; someone told me then that we never really become adults until we lose a parent. I think I understand what she meant.

Please take care of yourself! I love you!
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Old 07-16-2007, 06:59 PM
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I too am very sorry for your loss. I don't know if you were close or not, but he was still your Dad. (((HUGS)))
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:06 PM
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Kris ............I am so sorry for your loss..............you will be in my thoughts
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:11 PM
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(((Kris))). I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your sister. Deepest sympathy...
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:14 PM
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Kris, I'm so sorry...what a hard way to find out too and not being told...there's just no words. Know that you are in my prayers. Hugs
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:23 PM
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I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and your family..(((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:26 PM
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I'm sorry, Love, and send a thousand hugs and prayers.

I've been away and just saw this. I really am sorry.

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Old 07-16-2007, 07:27 PM
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Kris, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I am praying for you and family.
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:38 PM
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My dad was a High School teacher. He had a love of science and of young kids. He was a photographer and also played in a Country Western Band. He had big expectations of me and I on more than one occasion let him down. I was going to do things my way, and I did. I failed miserably at several attempts to get myself together. Now..........now that I am. Now that I am that daughter he'd be really proud of, he'll never see it. He's never going to see what I've become. He'll never have the chance to be proud of me. I never had the chance to show him. He'll never get to see his great grandson. I'll never get to tell him I do love him despite it all. We should have done things differently and we didn't.........both too proud, now it's too late.
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:43 PM
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so sorry loves...............wish there were words to comfort you ..............(((((((((kris))))))))))))))
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Old 07-16-2007, 07:45 PM
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(((Kris))) I am sure he was proud of you your a great woman and a great mom and just a great person that doesnt go unnoticed ever. Please dont think that you let him down.
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