Please, I Need Advice Now
I'm no angel!
Join Date: May 2005
Location: tampa, fl
Posts: 6,728
Roz,
Sometimes "things" just get out of hand, one is so close to the issue that they cannot see it clearly.
Been there myself. Unravelling family issues is a monumental task, and has many ups and downs.
Have you ever had a family meeting? Sometimes we just need to lay all our cards face up.
Can you get your mother to go meetings? I know she is old and resistant to change, having elderly parents myself, I know it goes with the territory, however, I would give it a shot.
Keep working on you, you can break the cycle for you, even if you can do nothing about your mom, you will be in a better place.
My Best,
Sometimes "things" just get out of hand, one is so close to the issue that they cannot see it clearly.
Been there myself. Unravelling family issues is a monumental task, and has many ups and downs.
Have you ever had a family meeting? Sometimes we just need to lay all our cards face up.
Can you get your mother to go meetings? I know she is old and resistant to change, having elderly parents myself, I know it goes with the territory, however, I would give it a shot.
Keep working on you, you can break the cycle for you, even if you can do nothing about your mom, you will be in a better place.
My Best,
rozied
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: PA, USA
Posts: 1,292
Yes Dolly does give great advice & I want to thank everyone for their input. My mom has paid it. I don't know anything else right now. My ex told me my AS has to go to court Monday July 9th.
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