alyssiav

So,my Ah is working an outpatient program instead of going to rehab which I tried to convince him to do last week. My sis in law was trying to tell me last week that he wants to go to this certain rehab bcs it specializes in Cok instead of the one he was at before for 9 days bcs he didn't like it... I told her at this point its not about what he wants its about him getting clean and getting in asap. Before that I had talked to my mil and told her he needs to get into rehab or I need to get a RO and get him out and she told me I married him for better or worse and I'm giving up and ohh that I pressured him into marriage ( mind you we were together for 8 years before we got married) I hung up on her after that comment. Besides all that he opted to do this outpatient prog instead anyways.

So, I just heard a voice mail his sis left for him after me and her had that conversation last week and she told him that our marriage is a joke and he should just get a divorce and start over that I want to run the show and be leader of the pack and I'm a Prima Donna. I can't believe them. Anyways they havn't even called since last week to even find out if he's in rehab or what. I am going to lose my MIND!!!

tropikgal2

Sounds like your inlaws are toxic. Cut your ties with them is the best advice I can give.

alyssiav

Thanks - That's what Im thinking!

greeteachday

Sorry that you have to go through this....I always try to remind myself that what other people think of me is none of my concern. I hope he decides he wants recovery for him...Take care of yourself...that's all you can do! Hugs