Boy am I sick of his excuses

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06-13-2007, 07:48 AM

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hoping

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Boy am I sick of his excuses

I am sick of my husband playing with our lives and future everytime he gets an urge to party. I am sick of him telling me he isn't hurting anyone. I am sick of the rationalizations. (I don't know if I spelled that correctly but I am in the middle of a rant here)
10 years and he will never change. He will never want decent friends who do not party. He will drink and drug and use me. He will lie, cheat and steal. He will abuse me.
I just needed to say this to someone who would understand.... Thank you.

06-13-2007, 08:40 AM

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Jewelz

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I understand you! But now that you are feeling this way what are you going to do for you?

Hugs,
jewel

06-13-2007, 10:05 AM

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liesagain

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yeah I get sick of the lies and the excuses too.......................yet right now hes in rehab and when I speak to him no lies no excuses but heck theres not much of anything else either.......its like he's a stranger or something, thanks me at the end of a call ..............talks to me about only surface stuff

not sure which I hate more, and thats sad................

06-13-2007, 01:03 PM

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greeteachday

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Nothing changes if nothing changes...I can certainly appreciate where you are coming from. Now as Jewelz said, what do you want to do for you to change what you can control...you, your life, your reactions and actions?

06-13-2007, 02:26 PM

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parentrecovers

let it grow!

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thinking about you, hoping. addiction is really hard. blessings, k

06-13-2007, 03:37 PM

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cinderellawkids

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My old neighborhood, where AH is living is full of guys and gals, who never changed, never grew up. AH and his Brother have no food, power or water, no work and no money, yet they still eat and they still drink (more than they eat) the neighborhood provides, someone even gave him use of their van

Who says theres no neverland?

06-14-2007, 01:59 PM

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confuzedinva

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Dogs bark, birds chirp, and an active addict lies. It's that simple. Can't change that, but like those before me have said, you CAN make changes for you.

06-14-2007, 02:26 PM

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classysista

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belive me I UNDERSTAND I KNOW I HAVENT BEEN IN THIS AS LONG AS YOU... AND I NEVER MARRIED MY ADDICT BUT I TOTATLLY GET YOU.. THE WAY THEY TRY TO JUSTIFY EVERYTHING THEY DO... AND EXPLAIN LIKE IT DESERVES AN EXPLAINTION
they are SELFISH AND JUST DONT CARE ABOUT THEM OR ANYONE... I FEEL YOU ON THIS ON GIRL WE SHOULD CHAT SUMTIME
GOD BLESS YOU