relapsed.................again
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relapsed.................again
My crackhead husband relapsed, only this time he has crossed my final line theres no going back I AM DONE!
So today he's "working" and I get this call from a "customer" who needs emergancy service................well that was many many many hours ago...............I go one call from him saying "i'm ok and hanging up" no answer since then.
So I call this customer who left me her # on the first call and guess what she wont answer..................then a few more calls she answers picks up and hangs up.................so basically I keep calling and calling plus calling her every name in the book on the voice mail................
so basically my crachhead husband used some crackhead ***** to call our business while he was supposadely on a job.........to fake a service call so he could stay out and smaoke crack..........
Its a joke our whole life is a joke. Well the jokes on him because this is where it stops
oh well more power to them both. I am not living this life.
I am officially done.
So today he's "working" and I get this call from a "customer" who needs emergancy service................well that was many many many hours ago...............I go one call from him saying "i'm ok and hanging up" no answer since then.
So I call this customer who left me her # on the first call and guess what she wont answer..................then a few more calls she answers picks up and hangs up.................so basically I keep calling and calling plus calling her every name in the book on the voice mail................
so basically my crachhead husband used some crackhead ***** to call our business while he was supposadely on a job.........to fake a service call so he could stay out and smaoke crack..........
Its a joke our whole life is a joke. Well the jokes on him because this is where it stops
oh well more power to them both. I am not living this life.
I am officially done.
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Sending some hugs. Crack is a nasty drug and addicts do nasty things to get their next hit. I am happy to see that you are getting ready to let go of that rope. Like has been said maybe times on here.....let go or be dragged. Hugs, Marle
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I can have compassion for addicts, but not active addiction that is right in my home. My home needs to be a sanctuary... a place safe from the worst of the world, not another area of conflict and pain.
I could not "detatch with love" as they tell me in Alanon... not at first. At first, I had to "detatch with anger"... or maybe even, "detatch with rage". Today, I can see active addicts with detatchment and love... because they are not IN my home.
I wish you the best. ((hugs))
I could not "detatch with love" as they tell me in Alanon... not at first. At first, I had to "detatch with anger"... or maybe even, "detatch with rage". Today, I can see active addicts with detatchment and love... because they are not IN my home.
I wish you the best. ((hugs))
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Join Date: Apr 2007
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Its been about 3 weeks now since I kicked out my addict partner. I have finally got sober and got on with my life. his life seems to be crashing around him and now it is no longer my problem. What he does or doesnt do no longer affect me and my kids. I'm FREE!!! so power to you!
When you have had enough, then just do what you gotta do. Unless he makes some drastic changes, I would stick with leaving him! Thats just my opinion!
misslisa
When you have had enough, then just do what you gotta do. Unless he makes some drastic changes, I would stick with leaving him! Thats just my opinion!
misslisa
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