teke

gosh anvil, don't they grow so fast.

teke

anvil, well just how big will he get, in a minute, he's gonna need his own room.

this is for you, cinder, i promise this is the last one, i'm tempted to post my other grands but i don't have one of them altogether yet

my 3 yro talking grandbaby shadow

teke

thats nice, anvil, you have it decorated so nice, and its not fair that i only get to see the reflection. i think i remembered you posting your arm in another pic, though

teke

i can't believe that i know someone who has a view like that, its one to dream of. you guys are so lucky. its only a dream for me, you can go fishing when ever you feel like it, huh

cinderellawkids

AH called, blah blah, he's sorry, blah blah blah, I must not love him if I didnt come by, blah blah, he has money, balh blah and it got worse.
I told him I had to go he had a smart comment and hung up. Simutaneously, BIL arrived at MILs again. FIL said you have 10 seconds to get off my property or Im calling the police. Dont come back, and he left.

I have a bad feeling that this is gonna end up a rough weekend. Im telling myself I want better for my kids his actions dont show love. His sweet words mean nothing.
Im trying to keep in mind what MIL said, we should be mad and stay mad, neither of us deserve to deal with this.

cinderellawkids

Wheres the pic?

cinderellawkids

Thanks ANvil
I just ahve to get strong!!! or stronger, gotta be ready to face him face to face with all teh crying and still make him go

teke

sorry cinder, all i can say is sometimes it do get worse before it gets better, how long has he been gone now? did you see my tank, pics kind of blurry, took them with a camcorder, need to get a digital soon. i guess i'll need it if i'm gonna be posting pics.

teke

the pics are on pg 8, i agree with anvil, he has to be hurting a little, you think maybe he ran out of you know what? wasn't yesterday a payday for him too, or was it for bil. the wkends are always the worse, when you are active. hope thats not the case though

cinderellawkids

He hasnt worked, so no payday for either, not sure how theyve managed to still be screwed up, dont care.

cinderellawkids

Beautioful tank teke and grandaughter. I love the ruins thing, ALways wanted one of those

cinderellawkids

Exactly ANvil, thats what I want, forgot to add sending me money orders every week. I just hate the pain it all causes when he calls ect. That part is sooo hard to deal with.

Wish Mr. Shrimp man would bring me some shrimp, but I cant let him in either.

teke

cinder, i got a whole box of those decorations at a yard sale for 2.00.

cinderellawkids

Cool, I never find aquarium stuff around here at garage sales.

I want another one Teke, I really do, Im pathetic, yet I still havent cleaned mine today

teke

what do you mean, youre not sure how they can still be screwed. come on cinder, the man is not with his family, has no job, no money may mean no food, almost no lights, no transportation, no turtles, no fish, no dog, mama, sis and dad don't want to be bothered, living with an active addive/alcoholic, no body feels sorry enough for them to help them out, what did you expect?

cinderellawkids

I expected him to feel and act awful, I didnt expect them to still be intoxicated. Thats what I meant by screwed up They only had 386 dollars 8 days ago, so unless they are selling the stove and fridge someones supporting their habit

teke

i said that i was gonna clean mine this wkend but not yet, the first one i had i found 55 gallon tank at a yard sale, had everything needed in it already for setup, except gravel, and i got it for 20.00. it was a poly glass one, i really liked it but it got broke in moving

teke

trust me cinder, an addict can find a way to get there doc. thats why they call it being on a mission, and they won't stop until mission accomplished

cinderellawkids

Ok guys true codependant with a plan.
Diviorce hubby and run off into the sunset with shrimp man (after waiting a year in between of course)
LOL

teke

if thats your plan, then you'll HAVE TO RUN, don't think ah will take that laying down, do you?