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iamunique 05-03-2007 08:54 PM

Iamunique? has any one seen me?....
 
The last I saw me, I was defending my castle.


Hello good people,

I've got so much to tell yas....


Well, my castle is on the market. After alot of soul searching, reality checking, exhausting all my options and praying for guidance, I decided to tell AH I was ready to sell it. (He couldn't sell it without my consent.)

It's no secret how much I love it here and I'm not going to sugar coat the fact that it absolutley kills me to have to leave but I see no other choice.
I'm running on faith. HP didn't bring me this far to drop me on my royal crown. Right?
One thing I do know is that I'd rather live in a shack and have serenity and sanity than in a Castle and have none.

It has occurred to me as I've been doing cleaning and packing and fixing the house up to sell, that the whole time I was here since 2003, I have been battling 3 evil addicition dragons (my AH, MyAS and my AD)and therefore didn't truly get to enjoy my home as much as I would have like to.
I am looking forward to a fresh start with my lil' guy. I'm sure we'll bloom wherever HP plants us. And We'll be living without the insanity of addiction.
It's kept me in bondage far too long.
I thank God each day for all of you and am forever grateful for the love and support I get here.
I pray daily for all of us and our loved ones.

I wish I could get here more often...hopefully when I am more settled, but I get here as often as I can

Thanks for being here,
Hugs Iamunique

MeggieStar 05-03-2007 09:02 PM

((Unique))

Good for you. You sound so strong. I am happy for you. Send a little this way, would ya? :)

Take care...

BigSis 05-03-2007 09:57 PM

((((Iamunique))))

Always taking the next step, doing the next right thing. You are a strong woman, with a kind streak a mile wide.

Hurry back.....((hugs))

rose 05-03-2007 10:00 PM

Unique,

It is ok, I am going through much the same here, time to get ready to put the house on the market. What I truly believe is when I do move it is going to be a brand knew start, I know that the place we both find to live is going to give us some much needed peace.

Keep your chin up!

Rose

bookmiser 05-03-2007 10:24 PM

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All hail you, Queen Unique.
So you have the royal throne packed and ready for an adventure?
Good for you. I've missed your hinnyness terribly. lol

You sound in good spirits, which is what I adore about you.
Never let'em see ya sweat.

Your next royal village, I hope, looks somethin' like this....http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j2.../thmyspace.png

Without all the flying princesses, though. lol

Keep your chin up and your bunny slippers at the ready.

Love ya, mean it.

CatsPajamas 05-03-2007 11:01 PM

I truly believe that you and your little guy will bloom wherever you are planted . A "house" is really just four walls and a door . There is some magic involved in transforming the house into a home ... And you ,Queen unique, possess some of that magic .

I have every confidence that you and your little guy will create a wonderful loving happy and safe home .

Keep us posted

Hugs,
Cat

Ann 05-04-2007 04:02 AM

'Nique, I know in my heart that you and little guy will be happy in your new home wherever that may be. A home is not four walls and a roof, it's the love and happiness that dwells within.

You and little guy are in my prayers every night. :hug:

Royal Codie Hug....Queen Ann

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historyteach 05-04-2007 04:19 AM

'Nique;

Good to hear from you! You sound full of acceptance. And as I always say, "Acceptance is the key to my serenity today." :e058:

Be well; keep us posted on the next part of your journey. And most of all, enjoy the ride with the lil guy! :wink3:

Shalom!

teke 05-04-2007 04:28 AM

glad to hear that you are doing what you need to do for you, but i'm also sorry that it had to get to this point. you are right, i believe that god has a plan, and it will all reveal itself in time. i pray that your love ones finds their ways soon. keeping you andyours in my prayers

itiswhatitis... 05-04-2007 07:33 AM

good luck...

i remember making a cross country move from connecticut to arizona - my oldest son was 4 at the time and said *it doesn't matter what house we live in - a home is a family* - so may you and your lil guy (family) find peace and love in your new home...

love,
s

cece1960 05-04-2007 10:45 AM

(((Unique)))
The thought of serneity and peace is hard to pass up, huh?
I'll be rooting for you.
You'll be OK, I know it.
((((hugs))))
Cece

marteen 05-04-2007 04:01 PM

Unique, so glad to hear from you. YOu are an amazing woman; you can move mountains and get yourself another castle! You just don't know what wonders will be waiting for you around that corner!

:hug:

mjpaao 05-04-2007 06:29 PM

Nique,
I've missed you too. I have a feeling any home you find will soon be your perfect castle. Please let us know how you're doing when you can.

deedee 05-04-2007 06:41 PM

(((Unique)))

I know this is painful, but it sounds like your head and your heart are in a good place. I'm sure HP has something lovely in mind just for you and lil guy.

love and prayers ~

deedee

mooselips 05-04-2007 07:45 PM

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Unique,
I've missed you.
Try not to stay away too long....
Hugs to little fella.....

mooselips 05-04-2007 07:49 PM

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I'll try again...

iamunique 05-04-2007 08:41 PM

You all are the Best.

I couldn't get through this without yas.

I do want to say so much more and answer each of you individually,,but i can barely keep my eyes open

Just wanted to let ya's know I read all your posts and that I treasure each one of you.
Thanks for being here,
Hugs,
Iamunique

greeteachday 05-04-2007 08:57 PM

Good night, sweet queen...Get a good night's sleep. I know that no matter where you and the lil guy land, you will make it a warm and loving home. Hugs and prayers are always with you and yours


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