Got hurt...
the girl can't help it
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Got hurt...
I have been reading at another forum for co-dependency for several years I never posted there untill the other day. I decided to register so I could post there. I feel that I carefully read their policy and felt that I was staying within the boundries set yet for some reason unknown to me I was banned. It kinda hurts and I do not know what I did wrong only that I am not allowed to read or post. It seems kinda closed and shaming of them to not even give me a reason. Thanks for letting me share...
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YOU? Get banned, Oh sweetie, that is almost laughable it's so ridiculous. I don't mean I'm laughing at your feelings, I'm laughing at how ludicrous that is.
Can you write to them and ask them why? Maybe it was a mistake? If not, it really is their loss, not yours. Don't doubt that for a second.
Can you write to them and ask them why? Maybe it was a mistake? If not, it really is their loss, not yours. Don't doubt that for a second.
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Splendra, I dont know the sitch, but god Im sorry your feelings got hurt.
EXACTLY.
I value your input and your being a part of this community!
HUGS!
Maybe it was a mistake? If not, it really is their loss, not yours. Don't doubt that for a second.
I value your input and your being a part of this community!
HUGS!
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Splendra, I'm so sorry they were so disrespectful. I have always learned a lot from you and find your posts wonderful. I think they just goofed cuz if they had half a clue what a kind, compassionate person you are they'd be welcoming you with a parade.
'course, I am a little selfish too, and I'm just a _little_ bit glad that we get to keep you for ourselves
Mike
'course, I am a little selfish too, and I'm just a _little_ bit glad that we get to keep you for ourselves
Mike
the girl can't help it
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Thanks ya'll ((((DWI))),(((Robina))), ((((Elizabeth))))....
I did write to them and ask what I did to get banned. I haven't heard back from them yet so I will keep ya'll posted if I do.
My last post there was about separating the addict/alcoholic from their disease to a woman who was hurting over having an affair with a married man that went back to his wife. She was getting a lot of bashing from people who said she ought to be ashamed of herself and were saying stuff about the OW who had wrecked their marriage I said it was the husband who made the choice to ruin the marriage first and that it is the disease of addiction not people who is the monster... I guess they need to bash the A at that site...
Also said that I had to forgive the OW that had an affair with my H and see her as a person because carrying around the hurt and anger was too much for me to bare...
My H has done a lot of stuff that really hurt me. My only hold on my sanity has been in taking responsibility for my reactions and mistakes and own my part in making things worse and learn from my mistakes...Oh and I said if I ever did get free of my H that I would most certainly run a retail credit and criminal background check on anyone that I was thinking about getting deeply involved with...
I will get over it I guess...
I did write to them and ask what I did to get banned. I haven't heard back from them yet so I will keep ya'll posted if I do.
My last post there was about separating the addict/alcoholic from their disease to a woman who was hurting over having an affair with a married man that went back to his wife. She was getting a lot of bashing from people who said she ought to be ashamed of herself and were saying stuff about the OW who had wrecked their marriage I said it was the husband who made the choice to ruin the marriage first and that it is the disease of addiction not people who is the monster... I guess they need to bash the A at that site...
Also said that I had to forgive the OW that had an affair with my H and see her as a person because carrying around the hurt and anger was too much for me to bare...
My H has done a lot of stuff that really hurt me. My only hold on my sanity has been in taking responsibility for my reactions and mistakes and own my part in making things worse and learn from my mistakes...Oh and I said if I ever did get free of my H that I would most certainly run a retail credit and criminal background check on anyone that I was thinking about getting deeply involved with...
I will get over it I guess...
the girl can't help it
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(((Mike)))) (((Judy))) (((Minnie)))
I'll pm Judy and you too Minnie...I wouldn't feel good about saying which site it is in public.
I would never in my wildest nightmare seek to hurt another human being. I am definatly working on not walking into any more ambushes either.
Thank you so much my sweet friends for your support
I'll pm Judy and you too Minnie...I wouldn't feel good about saying which site it is in public.
I would never in my wildest nightmare seek to hurt another human being. I am definatly working on not walking into any more ambushes either.
Thank you so much my sweet friends for your support
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Splendra, you know, I would be proud if a bunch of sickos said to me they didn't like me around cuz I'm too healthy. Everything you said is totally healthy and valid, so forget them and snuggle in here with all the good people that love ya.
Mike
Mike
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Wow, I'm shocked TBH. I have always considered you to be one of the pros here and your posts are just and unbiased. Add that to your recipes and those folks are bonkers for banning you!
LOL!!! I wonder how long Judy would last!!!!
LOL!!! I wonder how long Judy would last!!!!
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