megamysterioso

Janet-- we all need to vent sometimes and anger does not always have to be deemed as "unhealthy" IMO. It's HOW you get past the anger that matters. Otherwise, it is toxic. I've vented like a maniac on these forums plenty!

Cynay

Im sooooooo glad it went well and it sounds like you were in completet control.

Feels good huh??????

Dont worry about the remark, we all do it ... heck we are only human. Progress not perfection right. One day I think you will have compassion for her, after all he is going to do to her what he did to you.... she does not even know.

Janitw

Cynay - She is also an alcoholic, bypolar and meth user...believe me I think she knows exactly what shes getting into it's just that she has no job to speak of and needs our money for her 2 mortgages and bills. My AH happens to be down 1000.00 in payments to me. Which of course she controls his paycheck now. Like my atty said...she will use him up until he looses his job then she will move on. Cuz thats her M.O...my lawyer has dealt with her many times over the years.

Cynay

Well all in all you are doing wonderful

Honest I feel badly for her hon.... I would not want to be her for all the money in the world.