my A received 30 card last night!!!
 

I went to an open AA meeting last night with my A and he received his 30 day sober card. I am so proud of him. I dont know what i would do without the support from this forum and Al-Anon meetings i go to once a week along with my daily readings. He has talked about a sponsor, but i can not push him onward and I know that. Just waiting patiently for him to reach out for one of those phone numbers.My A wants to marry me. In August. I know that we should not make and drastic moves for about a year after sobriety. I need advise today if anyone would give any.

THat is wonderful, 30 days of sobriety. I wouldn't push too much on the sponsor, just mention it here and there. The fact that he is going to AA is really good.

I would wait a little longer on the marriage thing, just to see how things progress.

Believe this is a double thread, see the other one with 20 plus replys.