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To everyone
Hello!
To all of you that responded to my thread and my private messages
i thank you!
I apologize if i upset or bothered any of you,
this is obviously a stressful time for me , and i thank you all for your welcome, for your advice, thoughts, listening, and being here.
You are all a blessing!!
To all of you that responded to my thread and my private messages
i thank you!
I apologize if i upset or bothered any of you,
this is obviously a stressful time for me , and i thank you all for your welcome, for your advice, thoughts, listening, and being here.
You are all a blessing!!
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i am hanging in there....went bicycling today., played basketball
i am trying to do some stuff like i did before she and i started spending time together....well her counselor has put her on restriction she is to have no male visitors or calls or texts and cannot see me or anyone else male from outside of treatment in order for her to focus on treatment.
her husband showed up and they are fighting
some guy that graudated treatment went there sunday unannounced and kissed her (she is unsure why she didnt stop him but does not want him and has told him she is not intrested) and of course complications of our relationship of love and how we do love each other but she doesnt feel ready to jump into anything yet
said counselors said one year of sobriety etc...
so not sure what future holds, she does love me and says she will miss me (no contact with any outside males for 2 weeks)
i did drop off a salad for her (her favorite kind) and she texted me said loves me and will miss me.....so no contact now for 2 weeks....(til end of treatment)
i am trying to do some stuff like i did before she and i started spending time together....well her counselor has put her on restriction she is to have no male visitors or calls or texts and cannot see me or anyone else male from outside of treatment in order for her to focus on treatment.
her husband showed up and they are fighting
some guy that graudated treatment went there sunday unannounced and kissed her (she is unsure why she didnt stop him but does not want him and has told him she is not intrested) and of course complications of our relationship of love and how we do love each other but she doesnt feel ready to jump into anything yet
said counselors said one year of sobriety etc...
so not sure what future holds, she does love me and says she will miss me (no contact with any outside males for 2 weeks)
i did drop off a salad for her (her favorite kind) and she texted me said loves me and will miss me.....so no contact now for 2 weeks....(til end of treatment)
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That's great! It's good to hear you talking about doing things and living your life. Keep it up. It will keep you sane for now, and help you find happiness in the long run.
Keep us posted on your progress.
L
Keep us posted on your progress.
L
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maybe this is a good thing that she is on restriction?
she can focus on her and i can focus on me (as some have already told me)
and when she gets out she perhaps will be better....
she had said last night she loves me with all her heart but needs to take things slow
in these next 2 weeks i can also focus on me as well so hopefully in 2 weeks both she and me will be better
she can focus on her and i can focus on me (as some have already told me)
and when she gets out she perhaps will be better....
she had said last night she loves me with all her heart but needs to take things slow
in these next 2 weeks i can also focus on me as well so hopefully in 2 weeks both she and me will be better
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