Kittycat

Okkkkkkkkkkkkk I just want to primal scream right here and right now. I just read through some of the posts regarding feelings! Today...I want to take out my sons and my A. I want to ban every male from this planet. My anger is out of control....I could not even begin to explain the dynamics of the three men...so I will just have to say this is a vent.
some of you really make sense about just "GIVE IT ALL UP" with the A...cause he is just playing yopur old song once more....my god that is what I am fear the most. My choice...........I don't want another go around with alcohol.
I am not doing well with being the supportive spouse...the better he is getting...the more he swirls me around the colder i get!
Today has been hell for sure..............
Love Kitty

Ann

Kitty

Feel free to just vent away, Kitty. You have been through some heavy-duty emotional stuff lately.

But don't forget to take care of you!!! When is the last time you did something nice, just for you? You deserve it so do it!!! If I sound controlling, well give me a break - I'm a little out of practice

matters

Keeping your guard up is AOK Kitty!!!

Feeling the way you are feeling is normal. Venting helps release the anger you have inside. We are always here to listen and support you!! After all that you have been through it is hard to be all warm and fuzzy.I go through that alot. He wants affection and I don't have any to give. I start to feel alittle more comfortable and then start feeling distant again. Of course our situations are different because my husband is sober for awhile and then drinks again.

Take care of you and keep venting!
matters

Morning Glory

Kitty,

You're not yelling as much as you used too.

There wasn't even one @#$!@@%#!@^ in your post.

That looks like progress to me.

HUGS,
MG

Josie

LOL, M.G.'s right Kitty!!!
I had a whopper of a MAN day myself-
I don't understand them at all.
Hang in there.

Hugs,

JT

If any of you get The Discovery Channel they are running a show about the scientic difference between the sexes. It is really cool!

Oh and Kitty...what are you fighting??? If you don't want to...DON"T!!! That is all there is to this. You don't have to turn into a pretzil because he is in recovery. So are you! How limber is he???

Hugs,
JT

piggle

"Kitty,

You're not yelling as much as you used too.

There wasn't even one @#$!@@%#!@^ in your post."

this made me laugh! It's true Kitty!

(((KITTY)))

It takes a long long long LOOOOONG time to trust again. Remember how long it took to break your trust? You are right where you should be. Take care of you.

Much love

~piggle~

OkayWithMyself

Falsehoods about anger:
1. Releases tension
2. Getting your way in relationships
3. Tells how I really feel

Truth about anger:
When you give "good", you get good back slowly
When you give "bad", you get bad back quickly

Firmness supports the family, anger destroys it.

Anger begins with a primary feeling, such as fear. Try to stay with that feeling. Control the thought process that takes you to the angry state.

"I greet the day with Peace in my heart. I speak the language of Peace everywhere in my world and carry that feeling with me into every activity. I think Peace with every thought, and as I resonate it outward from my being, It comes back to me."
--Carrie Hunter

vinnietoo

Hey Kitty,

Vent away!!! When my anger flares it's head
that's usually what's requirerd for me to look at my
fears and learn to accept them. Seems I always have to go
backwards before I can move forwards. But I'm told
it does get better and I know that.


Blessings,
Vinnie



anns, i knew that "honorary woman" title was good
for something. Thanks!! When kitty bans all the men
from the planet.....well.... eeks, that's a scary thought!
Kitty, i'll go too.