When Change Comes-Sarahs Ramblings
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When Change Comes-Sarahs Ramblings
When will he/she stop drinking?
When will he/she stop lying?
When will he/she get it?
The problem with alot of codependent issues are we dont accept pesonal responsibilty with our life and choices when we think that life will change when THEY change.
The only person we have control over is us.
So,
Instead of hte above...
When will I learn I have no control over someone elses actions?
When will I stop being surprised?
When will I stop setting myself up to be lied to?
When will I stop believing the lies?
When will I stop expecting someone else to make my life what I want?
When will I put myself first?
When will I get out of Gods way?
When will I care enough about myself, to take personal responsibilyt for my actions only?
There is a reason that we all have free will. We can do what we choose.
Its up to us to live the life we want, and stop tolerating behavior we dont.
When will he/she stop lying?
When will he/she get it?
The problem with alot of codependent issues are we dont accept pesonal responsibilty with our life and choices when we think that life will change when THEY change.
The only person we have control over is us.
So,
Instead of hte above...
When will I learn I have no control over someone elses actions?
When will I stop being surprised?
When will I stop setting myself up to be lied to?
When will I stop believing the lies?
When will I stop expecting someone else to make my life what I want?
When will I put myself first?
When will I get out of Gods way?
When will I care enough about myself, to take personal responsibilyt for my actions only?
There is a reason that we all have free will. We can do what we choose.
Its up to us to live the life we want, and stop tolerating behavior we dont.
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