Hi- Need Input Fast On this One!
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Metropolis
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Hi- Need Input Fast On this One!
Big question here needs input real quick, cause I’m on a deadline.
Since I have to clean up the wreckage here with a BK, the wife came down last week to sign some papers and I have been working on these for days now.
I have a Friday deadline to get these in to help stop a garnishment on my wages.
She knows the deadline, only way to contact her is through a friend that lives down the street.
W’s phone was shut off.
I uncovered one last paper that needs her to sign, but I can not reach her!
She went thought the credit counseling already, and I know she will blame this on me when I have to file separately on Friday.
I’m trying to do the right thing here since WE got ourselves in this.
I left 2 messages and talked to her friend.
Is this enough???
Since I have to clean up the wreckage here with a BK, the wife came down last week to sign some papers and I have been working on these for days now.
I have a Friday deadline to get these in to help stop a garnishment on my wages.
She knows the deadline, only way to contact her is through a friend that lives down the street.
W’s phone was shut off.
I uncovered one last paper that needs her to sign, but I can not reach her!
She went thought the credit counseling already, and I know she will blame this on me when I have to file separately on Friday.
I’m trying to do the right thing here since WE got ourselves in this.
I left 2 messages and talked to her friend.
Is this enough???
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Join Date: Dec 2005
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i think that if you left two messages and there's no other way to contact her, you did your best. You could only do so much. As long as you did your part correctly, then there's nothing else you can do.
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Join Date: Jul 2004
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Mr. C - you tried to contact her not once but twice. She knows what's going on right? It sounds like she wants YOU to take care of the mess yourself. Granted she did come and sign some papers, but all in all, she's stayed out of the picture. What else can you do - are you thinking that you should go to where she lives and try to explain that she still needs to sign a paper? What if she's not there? You need to take care of your end and yourself. If she gets mad it will probably be at herself but will take it out on you as A's usually do. Take care of YOU!
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Do your best,which you are,
let God do the rest,
get ahold of who you need to,[lawyer or whoever]
and explain to them,that you cant get ahold of her,and that you just found this extra paper,that she needs to sign.
Thats all you can do,really.
Try not to stress over this if you can.Easy does it.
let God do the rest,
get ahold of who you need to,[lawyer or whoever]
and explain to them,that you cant get ahold of her,and that you just found this extra paper,that she needs to sign.
Thats all you can do,really.
Try not to stress over this if you can.Easy does it.
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Metropolis
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Well I got a hold of her son’s dad and he said he sent her a message to call me but then started telling me all sorts of stuff.
Saying I was foolish, she was cheating, drinking, using drug, I tell you I was a mess after he was done!
I thought how stupid I have been!
Then she reaches me all sweet and telling me how sorry she was she did not call me, but she was sick with the flu.
She knew I was upset and asked why, so I told her.
I also told her that if all these things were true, that I wanted no part of it or her.
She tells me that he was making it all up, that he did not want to see her get back with me.
Then she tells me that I had asked him about her settlement from her accident, which I did not do.
So I know someone is playing me here, I just don’t know whom!
She will be here in 2 days to complete some paper work, but I know I will never call EX#2 again.
Saying I was foolish, she was cheating, drinking, using drug, I tell you I was a mess after he was done!
I thought how stupid I have been!
Then she reaches me all sweet and telling me how sorry she was she did not call me, but she was sick with the flu.
She knew I was upset and asked why, so I told her.
I also told her that if all these things were true, that I wanted no part of it or her.
She tells me that he was making it all up, that he did not want to see her get back with me.
Then she tells me that I had asked him about her settlement from her accident, which I did not do.
So I know someone is playing me here, I just don’t know whom!
She will be here in 2 days to complete some paper work, but I know I will never call EX#2 again.
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Join Date: Apr 2005
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Mr. C
Hopefully this will end your issues with her financially. You know my view point on the ex... I do the no contact, and that is one of the reasons... they lie, you never know if what they say is true or not... one thing I have learned is it really does not matter if what they say is true.
I keep my side of the street clean, I live every day the best I can and I keep the chaos as far from me as possible. Im not sure why you sound so suprised?? She has done this to you over and over... nothing has changed hon.
Hopefully this will end your issues with her financially. You know my view point on the ex... I do the no contact, and that is one of the reasons... they lie, you never know if what they say is true or not... one thing I have learned is it really does not matter if what they say is true.
I keep my side of the street clean, I live every day the best I can and I keep the chaos as far from me as possible. Im not sure why you sound so suprised?? She has done this to you over and over... nothing has changed hon.
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Just make sure you keep YOUR deadline!
She may or may not show up, but you still have to take care of you either way!
Remember also that ex's are ex's for a reason so take things with a large lump of salt.
Here's to a better, happier life in 2006!
She may or may not show up, but you still have to take care of you either way!
Remember also that ex's are ex's for a reason so take things with a large lump of salt.
Here's to a better, happier life in 2006!
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