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11-09-2005, 09:21 AM

# 41 (permalink)

Zoey

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You are in big trouble.
Life happens, go with your gut. Will you become a MONK maybe?? Only safe choice.

11-09-2005, 09:22 AM

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cwohio

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Here's another zinger, not only do we work together, She's a recovering A of eight years... And, she knows ALL my history w/ my ex... You know me, can't keep my mouth shut!

momma mia jazz - now you've REALLY opened the can of proverbial worms!

i'm just going to wait here for the responses!

maybe it will take my mind off of other things!

LOL

11-09-2005, 09:25 AM

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Gabe

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Jazz, take a walk on the wild side.
Work relationships have been known to work, and work well, if done right.
As for getting into a relationship with a recovering A, well...far be it from me to advise against that.

That is another thing that can work well.

11-09-2005, 09:28 AM

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cwohio

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jazz - if you take that walk on the wild side.......

oh see what you all started - my mind has fallen in the gutter and it can't get up!!!

11-09-2005, 09:30 AM

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Back at post 4 I asked for details, think being a recovering A is a detail but you know the score on that one, keep things light and keep it simple.
You've both been in recovery for some time, your both grownups, Well at least she is

11-09-2005, 09:32 AM

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Gabe

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Originally Posted by cwohio

jazz - if you take that walk on the wild side.......

Yeah, but do yourself (and her) a favor and avoid "green".

11-09-2005, 09:55 AM

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Way too funny!!!!

COME ON GIVE..... the whole story!!!!

I say go for it too, take it slow, you said this is a new house .... so go see it and take her a nice plant for a house warming gift. That way when she waters it she will think of you.

We all know A's are very attractive... we have all been attracted to them, but she has 8 years and therefore fits in nicely with your recovery plan. Mr. R helped me alot (and still does) to see things from the other side. At least you know she is not in denial... you know where things stand.

I say take the sexy panties anyway, just in case .... but go just to enjoy the person, stop overthinking it and just relax and enjoy the evening. We did not tell you to take a flippin ring after all..... Its just a date, and not really even that, you are just getting to know her is all.

11-09-2005, 10:10 AM

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Jazzman

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Originally Posted by minnie

I was just going to ask if she was an alcoholic

Minnie, I have always commented on your uncanny clairvoyant abilities… something very strange going on there…<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>

And of course my eyes are wide open. I'm not trying to decide If I should date her...I'm complaining about my "dry spell" and the opportunities that are "presenting themselves" to me are not what a good picker would pick, married, co-workers, recovering As...<o:p></o:p>

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Frustrating to say the least.. <o:p></o:p>

Guess it's me & the dog for a while longer...<o:p></o:p>

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* Milo! Stop that!*
<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office[img] /><st1:place><st1:place>* Milo</st1:place>! I know! TELL me about it!*<o:p></o:p>

11-09-2005, 10:18 AM

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gelfling

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Roflmao

I do have to say I greatly respect your thinking. I hope my son can have the principles and rules you do.

11-09-2005, 10:23 AM

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Jazzman

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Originally Posted by cwohio

my mind has fallen in the gutter and it can't get up!!!

I'll say!

11-09-2005, 10:28 AM

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cwohio

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well - i guess you won't be sharing your dog milo huh jazz?

i just need someone to come along and dust me once in a while.

11-09-2005, 10:38 AM

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ASpouse

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Originally Posted by cwohio

i just need someone to come along and dust me once in a while.

Oh my God, if I had a mind that was prone to the gutter ............

11-09-2005, 10:53 AM

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Gabe

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Originally Posted by ASpouse

Oh my God, if I had a mind that was prone to the gutter ............

I already went there Judy.

11-09-2005, 12:20 PM

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cwohio

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you would think it was friday the way we're all acting.

jazz - we have you to thank for all this you know!

11-09-2005, 12:25 PM

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Jazzman

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Originally Posted by cwohio

you would think it was friday the way we're all acting.

jazz - we have you to thank for all this you know!

You're welcome. Wanna hear the real juicy stuff? (listen up Cynay) She once told me that she had not dated anyone since her divorce 9 years ago. I must have looked at her w/ amazement because the next thing she said was she goes through a lot of batteries.

Now I ask you, what in the world would be the appropriate response to THAT comment?!?! I mean the open "buzzie toy" remark?!? Wonder what message she was trying to send me?!?!?