how do YOU feel today???????
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how do YOU feel today???????
seems an easy question doesnt it.....
when dancing the codependent blues.... it all depends upon HIM (or her... dont wish to generalize).
ever notice how some people have to look to their relationship to see how they feel that day? been there.. done that... determined not to be codependent any longer.
today i feel great... today i woke up and chose to do all the right things... today i made another feel good by what i said... and made people smile by what i did.....
how do i feel today? great! it is when we realize we have all the rights in the world to feel our own feelings... true freedom begins.
i hope everyone has a great day.
quietsins
when dancing the codependent blues.... it all depends upon HIM (or her... dont wish to generalize).
ever notice how some people have to look to their relationship to see how they feel that day? been there.. done that... determined not to be codependent any longer.
today i feel great... today i woke up and chose to do all the right things... today i made another feel good by what i said... and made people smile by what i did.....
how do i feel today? great! it is when we realize we have all the rights in the world to feel our own feelings... true freedom begins.
i hope everyone has a great day.
quietsins
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Location: England
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You know, I still do that. I am having major hassle with my ex at the mo - long story and I'm living it, so don't really have the strength to tell it too. And my day does, in part, depend on what his attitude is, because it dictates just how many boundaries I have to defend.
So today I am better than I was a week ago. And I feel..........tired, drained, proud of myself and delighted that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope it isn't a train....
So today I am better than I was a week ago. And I feel..........tired, drained, proud of myself and delighted that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope it isn't a train....
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Carrollton, Texas
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How am I feeling today? Hummmm...calm, confident in myself, serene. I have finally mastered the ability to be alone but not lonely. I talked to Ryan from jail last night. It was hard to hear about him wanting out..wanting to be free again..as a 17 year old should be. I didn't badger him with "Well you should have known"s or "I told you so's".
I was able to express my love for him and then let it go. I feel pretty dang good today. Thanks for asking.
I was able to express my love for him and then let it go. I feel pretty dang good today. Thanks for asking.
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Wow, this provoked something in me. I DO usually decide how I'm feeling each day by what has happened with my AH in the past 24 hours. If he's done something extreme, I mope, skip the gym, eat TWO cinnamon rolls and TWO servings of lasagna (yup, this was last night), and feel bad the next day to boot! I'm hurting myself by sabotaging my efforts to lose a few pounds because of his actions! YIKES! This is SO WRONG, and I didn't realize before that I was allowing him and his actions to determine how I feel. I'm not sure how to change it yet, but I'll work on that.
too much on my plate!!
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Today, I'm sick once again with a ANOTHER sinus infection. I called in sick to work; I feel so guilty as I've only been there a short time, but jeez, I feel like someone hit me in the head with a 2 x 4, and feel dizzy, feverish, and just plain exhausted and tired. Looking at the puter screen hurts my eyes...Sorry for the long rant.
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