sunshinebluesky

from enough distance to keep us from talking,thank God. again, he was just a wavin and smiling away............i just want to slap the crap out of him

Girlfriend

Hi SBS,


I don't think I remember your situation with your xA. Were you two married? How long were you together? Is he still drinking?

When did you part ways?

And, you didn't wave back, I betcha, huh? What did ya do?


((hugs))

Savana 54

(((((SB)))))

I'm so thankful I don't live near xabf. I honestly don't think I could deal with seeing him right now.

FriendofBill

But you didnt, and THATS what matters!

Keep on keeping on!

pmaslan

Savana...OMG I was just thinking the same thing...thank god for that 8 hours and 500 miles away thing....that's all I can say.....

Savana 54

Patty..I live about 8 hours away from him as well. Although, now he is working back east...which is even better!!

sunshinebluesky

im tellin you, it breaks your heartt when they end up far away,but it really is so much better that way!!i had a different one years ago,that left me and went back to jersey without so much as a note,and im tellin ya it was a good damn thing i couldnt have him right in front of me!!! then i dated a next door neighbor one time for just a few months,and when that didnt work out, it was just awful....way way too close.....dont think i will ever do that one again!!! there is something to be said for the at least ,sort of--long distance relationships!!!

sunshinebluesky

oh,and girlfriend,i DID wave and i guess smiled....just a little. his was,and always is lately, the BIG ASS SMILE!!! he never got it then, and i guess he still doesnt get it now...............sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

CodeMaster

musta been hard, i would hate to run into my ex... tho good thing about this fear is i really try hard to be in my best shape ever, cause its only thing'll keep my head up if i do happen to run into her some unfortunate day.

then again, everything happens for a reason, it was destinys desire for it to happen for whatever insight to be gained.

lifes a trip. hope you have a wonderful happy weekend

sunshinebluesky

me too!!! though i know he could care less how damn good i look!!(since hes got somebody) and couldnt get him to notice or compliment then,let alone now. but its all good, because i also do it for ME!!! and i even got whistled at yesterday---at my age!!!!

Savana 54

:hoo Woo hooo! for all of us!!! It's sooooooo their loss!!

I think that all of us on this board are awesome and beautiful people, both inside and out!!

I know that I've lost about 15 pounds since I've last seen exabf; I think I look the best I have in the last 3 years.

sunshinebluesky

there are alot of days when i look in the mirror, and wonder if its just my imagination or does my face seem to look much better----i really think he was just bringing me down in so many ways. i also seem to feel physically better-most of the time,anyway.
in fact,now that im thinkin about it-him and i used to talk about how before we met each other no one paid attention to us,then when we got together we got checked out!! u know how that always seems to happen...they usually say its cuz your happy and content--well,later in our relationship it was not happening at all anymore with me......and the last couple months IT HAS!!! damn,we are soooooooooo better off!!!

CodeMaster

yeah when i was dating her, i was miserable everyday seriously i had a hard time even walking a block to get coffee and i just wanted to go in and get out didnt want to talk to anyone and i thought this was normal in life and that you only feel happy if something exceptional happens.

after the relationship ended, i cant tell ya how amazed i was at my sanity coming back and then i found myself naturally happy everyday easy i was really happy and i realized the norm can be being happy everyday if i wanted...