She is back in town.
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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She is back in town.
After 2 weeks since I rescued my “runaway wife” she finally contacts me.
I had a series of 3 calls then a message to call that she was trying to reach me and that she was at son’s dad’s place.
I put the call in and then she asks ME what was going on.
I told her I was working.
She tells me that she is there right now whatever that means and that she could not talk when I called last time cause her abusive OM got out of jail.
She said things had changed so that’s why she did not contact me.
But she was no longer there and not to call there or use the email.
Nice ******* had all her things.
Anyway I asked what her plans were and she said she did not know.
Hell she didn’t even know where her dog was, same old drama and crap.
So I asked how she was doing, ok.
So I told her that if she wanted to do anything to let me know and give me a call.
She asked me like what so I said well just get together and talk or grab a bite to eat.
You see I have not seen my stepson for over a year, it would be good to see him.
She then says she does not want to that.
In fact she then says she does not know why she even called me!
Hell I don’t know why she called me!
So she tells me she just wanted to let me know she was safe.
I told her to have a great night and call me if she likes.
Now I really not sure what’s going on.
But to just call me to tell me she is ok , is fine I guess.
But what next? She is now only 10 min. from me.
In town so to speak and I know some how I’m bound to run in to her now.
I had a series of 3 calls then a message to call that she was trying to reach me and that she was at son’s dad’s place.
I put the call in and then she asks ME what was going on.
I told her I was working.
She tells me that she is there right now whatever that means and that she could not talk when I called last time cause her abusive OM got out of jail.
She said things had changed so that’s why she did not contact me.
But she was no longer there and not to call there or use the email.
Nice ******* had all her things.
Anyway I asked what her plans were and she said she did not know.
Hell she didn’t even know where her dog was, same old drama and crap.
So I asked how she was doing, ok.
So I told her that if she wanted to do anything to let me know and give me a call.
She asked me like what so I said well just get together and talk or grab a bite to eat.
You see I have not seen my stepson for over a year, it would be good to see him.
She then says she does not want to that.
In fact she then says she does not know why she even called me!
Hell I don’t know why she called me!
So she tells me she just wanted to let me know she was safe.
I told her to have a great night and call me if she likes.
Now I really not sure what’s going on.
But to just call me to tell me she is ok , is fine I guess.
But what next? She is now only 10 min. from me.
In town so to speak and I know some how I’m bound to run in to her now.
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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Yes it’s all starting again.
She just left a message for me.
Get this, she found a pair of boots in a store she wants.
She tells about how much they are and she really likes them.
I guess she is going back to dancing and wondered if I would help her out buy buying them.
WTF?
She say if I want to spend some money on her…hell she wont even see me!
Am I crazy ?
She just left a message for me.
Get this, she found a pair of boots in a store she wants.
She tells about how much they are and she really likes them.
I guess she is going back to dancing and wondered if I would help her out buy buying them.
WTF?
She say if I want to spend some money on her…hell she wont even see me!
Am I crazy ?
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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Well I feel the same way.
If the reltionship was different, I have no problem with buying "MY WIFE" anything.
But for the past year,it has clearly not been the case.
So how the hell do I get that into her head.
Also the whole dancing thing I thought was over and done with!
If the reltionship was different, I have no problem with buying "MY WIFE" anything.
But for the past year,it has clearly not been the case.
So how the hell do I get that into her head.
Also the whole dancing thing I thought was over and done with!
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boy do i remember the days of manipulating to get a new pair of shoes......
I did the say crap she's doing.
she hasnt been your wife for a long time....dont forget that. Play the tape all the way thru.
I did the say crap she's doing.
she hasnt been your wife for a long time....dont forget that. Play the tape all the way thru.
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Mr.Christian,
Obviously nothing has changed on her side but it has on your side otherwise you wouldn't be on this board.
I can't give you advice but.............suggestions........
Ignore her messages?
Don't respond even if your butt falls off?
The choice is yours and you have many, she obviously doesn't.
Don't let her use you. You deserve more.
Ngaire
Obviously nothing has changed on her side but it has on your side otherwise you wouldn't be on this board.
I can't give you advice but.............suggestions........
Ignore her messages?
Don't respond even if your butt falls off?
The choice is yours and you have many, she obviously doesn't.
Don't let her use you. You deserve more.
Ngaire
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Well gang, I wont be used.
I think when she does call, and she will, I will tell her that I'm a bit confused.
1. I thought the dancinging was done since she went through hell. In fact she told the world she wanted to quit that life, but felt I would not let her.
2. she just got done saying she did not even want to see or spend anytime with me.
So why on this green planet would I want to buy her shoes now?
I think when she does call, and she will, I will tell her that I'm a bit confused.
1. I thought the dancinging was done since she went through hell. In fact she told the world she wanted to quit that life, but felt I would not let her.
2. she just got done saying she did not even want to see or spend anytime with me.
So why on this green planet would I want to buy her shoes now?
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Originally Posted by Mr. Christian
Well gang, I wont be used.
I think when she does call, and she will, I will tell her that I'm a bit confused.
1. I thought the dancinging was done since she went through hell. In fact she told the world she wanted to quit that life, but felt I would not let her.
2. she just got done saying she did not even want to see or spend anytime with me.
So why on this green planet would I want to buy her shoes now?
I think when she does call, and she will, I will tell her that I'm a bit confused.
1. I thought the dancinging was done since she went through hell. In fact she told the world she wanted to quit that life, but felt I would not let her.
2. she just got done saying she did not even want to see or spend anytime with me.
So why on this green planet would I want to buy her shoes now?
I agree with Minnie.... "No is a complete sentence." The only person that needs to make sense to you is YOU. Do your actions make sense to you?
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Mine do yes.
I'm more of a person that will say right what I mean.
There has been no action on my part except stopping a person from being beaten to death.
As you know I have not taken her in.
Nothing makes sence in her actions right now, so I'm on the outside so to speak.
I'm more of a person that will say right what I mean.
There has been no action on my part except stopping a person from being beaten to death.
As you know I have not taken her in.
Nothing makes sence in her actions right now, so I'm on the outside so to speak.
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Everyone here is right on. In fact, I would go totally with Ngaire....but one thing my mind is tossing around is HOW MUCH do you want to see your stepson???? I might be tempted to use the user....as in, I will buy you the shoes after stepson has spent the weekend with me.
okay, I am now under my desk, as I sense tomatoes incoming.
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okay, I am now under my desk, as I sense tomatoes incoming.
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