He now dislikes AA...

Old 07-13-2005, 10:36 AM
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He now dislikes AA...

Not that it matters, but for what it's worth, when I spoke to xabf the other day, he mentioned me sending him the "Letter From The Devil." It was a post on SR, I thought it was really good, whoever wrote it. Well anyway he got totally irrate and told me to never send him anything like that again. He also said don't try to tell me all that bullsh*t from AA and Al-Anon, when I said for instance "one day at a time for me." Just to note; I never pushed AA on him or told him to go back, just in conversation I brought up some things that I've learned.

I just thought it was weird coming from someone that cherished his sobriety and the AA fellowship at one time. Now to totally hate it, I guess because he feels guilty? Any input or thoughts?
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Old 07-13-2005, 10:39 AM
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Well of course if he is active he doesn't want to hear about anything that may contribute to him loosing his buzz...I guess it might be the devil in him ya know...
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Red face Letter from the Devil??

If you have a copy of that "letter From The Devil" That struck him so bad, could you send it via email to me? Then I can give you my point of view on it... It is disturbing to me that one piece of literature could impact someone so negatively. I am very sorry to hear that...obviously something more is going on deep down inside...
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Old 07-13-2005, 10:41 AM
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Hehe splendra..But he claims he hasn't drank for over a month...NOT!!!
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Old 07-13-2005, 10:45 AM
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Well the devil helps liars keep lying too...just don't call a spade a spade when you are talking about the devil cause he will pull out the pitch fork....
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Actually as he did "cherish AA" at one time it is well known that a belly full of booze and head full of AA DO NOT MIX.

It can make an alkie that goes back out not only very uncomfortable and guilty and affords them the "opportunity" (excuse) to lash out at anyone and everyone about anything and everything.

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Old 07-13-2005, 10:48 AM
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I PM'd you the letter Dana; if you would like me to email it to you let me know.
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Old 07-13-2005, 10:51 AM
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I think it has something to do with guilt too. He probably feels guilty because he is going against the stuff he used to hear in AA.
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Old 07-13-2005, 05:35 PM
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The truth hurts!!!! that letter probably struck too close to home.
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Old 07-13-2005, 06:12 PM
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Thanks for all your input and thoughts

HA! I think it's funny that letter smacked him in the face with a dose of reality, even if it was for one split second!!
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If he's back drinking of course he hates A.A.

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Old 07-13-2005, 06:22 PM
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thanks for sending me the letter! I SOOOOOO think it's a major slap in the face for him
Now he KNOWS what he does is wrong...that's where that saying really comes in...THE TRUTH HURTS!!
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