Confused on what to do
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Canada
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Originally Posted by Rho
the MFer is still putting me through HELL
Let's say he never changes. Never. Not today. Not tomorrow. Let's say he'll never behave how you want him to. And that he'll continue to beat the system and fool others.
What can you do to move on? What can you do to start to separate from the terrible resentment and bitterness that is making you so unhappy. What can you do so you don't give away your serenity to someone else, each and every day?
He may never change. And you certainly can't make him. But can you?
just some thoughts
gf
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Lake Luzerne
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Isn't his not paying support enabling? He isn't working? Maybe the court can help him find a job? He wants another chance at what? He doesn't work or pay support, he can NOT be a husband or a father. He can freeload. He's had all this time to do the right thing and he hasn't. What evidence has he provided that would make you even consider having him return? Is not drinking a license to do nothing? I thought drinking was his license to do nothing. Love? My stipulation would be sober and employed full time for one year before any conversation about coming back happened.
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