Another good thing has come of all this
Another good thing has come of all this
I really don't know how this happened, but within the last few weeks I have become so responsible. I am paying my bills on time, remembering to pay the kids lunch money, not procrastinating about anything and everything.
This is huge for me I am doing things that before I wouldn't do because it was too much of a hassle. I was terrible at this, I really just didn't do much of anything, and now I'm doing more and more and I love it.
I don't know what changed in me but it's really nice to be a little more grown up. (not too much yet though)!!!
This is huge for me I am doing things that before I wouldn't do because it was too much of a hassle. I was terrible at this, I really just didn't do much of anything, and now I'm doing more and more and I love it.
I don't know what changed in me but it's really nice to be a little more grown up. (not too much yet though)!!!
I like the order of doing things on time. It becomes one less thing to worry about...it's no longer Oh-Lord-I-gotta-pay-the-such-and-such-bill and it becomes as much as a non-event as washing the dishes after a meal. Less stress is always a good thing!
Good for you!
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Good for you!
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Just a thought....
Maybe it's because your not so exhausted from worrying so much about your A and your taking some time for you....
It feels good to be on top of things....WAY TO GO!!
Maybe it's because your not so exhausted from worrying so much about your A and your taking some time for you....
It feels good to be on top of things....WAY TO GO!!
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I know that when my AH is home that I can't manage much of anything. The laundry piles up, papers take over, and my whole demeanor is chaotic. When he's gone, house is clean, laundry is done, kids are happy, I am happy, dog is happy. Enjoy this feeling -- life is so much easier.
I love that! I always feel like I may have no control over alcohol or the alcoholic, but if I can have control over something, I feel better...like MY life is on order Good job queen!
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