emily33

My H called me lastnight, and is asking me why I got home so late lastnight, asking me if I used the credit cards, telling me to take the garbage out.

Why do I get so irritated by his questioning and requests?

I am having a wonderful peaceful week, and he calls and I get all jumbled inside, I really dont like him do I?

JessicaNAJ

I was in the same place you were about a year ago. Every breathe my AH took cut through me like a knife.

The more I focused on me and my recovery, the easier it got to deal with him. I can actually look at him not without feeling disgusted.

Buster

Take a deep breath ......and R-E-L-A-X.
Easier said than done, I know....but...No need for you to get yer knickers in a twist over him !!!!

cwohio

emily - that's his way of feeling "important".

as they say on the sopranos - fugeddaboutit!