Trust
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Hi Ms Metal,
I found that letter writing and journalling were great for me. I put all the letters in a drawer and one day when I had vented it all out I threw them away. The writing was for me to heal not for him to read. The relationship was over and I wanted it to stay over.
If I would have written and mailed it I would have kept the door open, but I wanted the door to stay shut.
If you really want the relationship to be over don't waste your writing on him, he'll just use it against you.
Ngaire
I found that letter writing and journalling were great for me. I put all the letters in a drawer and one day when I had vented it all out I threw them away. The writing was for me to heal not for him to read. The relationship was over and I wanted it to stay over.
If I would have written and mailed it I would have kept the door open, but I wanted the door to stay shut.
If you really want the relationship to be over don't waste your writing on him, he'll just use it against you.
Ngaire
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Bristol TN/VA
Posts: 12,431
I agree about "sitting on the letter". I am sure it has done you a great deal of good to write it, to clarify and to know your feelings and intentions.
But like Ngaire, I see the handwriting on the wall. You know a person by their patterns.
A person does not change their patterns in 3 months or with a few words.
Sometimes the wisest thing to do is nothing. Things will unfold over time and the truth will be known.
hugs,
live
But like Ngaire, I see the handwriting on the wall. You know a person by their patterns.
A person does not change their patterns in 3 months or with a few words.
Sometimes the wisest thing to do is nothing. Things will unfold over time and the truth will be known.
hugs,
live
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