Gracey

He must have rang my phone ten times at work so I finally answered it..............mostly silent but some small talk about the weather......He asked me why I have been avoiding him all week................

The only thing I said to him..............I am sorry if you feel that way, then we hung up..............I am not going to waste my time wondering why he had to call me that many times at work............just to say that...............It is a control thing..........and I am not suppose to understand it

I am going to figure out something to do with my kids tonight, he hasnt taken a nap all week this week, maybe today will be the day, it is awful gloomy out........

I have memorized that no abuse number, I am going to call, but it is hard to make a phone call at work, everyone can hear you....................at home for obvious reasons......I think I will borrow and office with a door, and make that phone call at lunch.

minnie

Good idea, Gracey.

And you're right - the phone calls are a control thing. Have you asked him not to call you at work?

Minnie
xxx

cwohio

you go girl! you are right - it sounds like most things your ah does are definitely control issues. hooray to you for keeping your dignity!

Buster

Good for you Gracey - you are a very strong woman. hang in there

TinyVoice

i jsut survived a year (I know, not all that long) of the constant phone call....are you avoiding me? thing. It was exhausting.

HUGS

queenofthehwy

Gracey,

I get that same call all the d@#$ time, it's so annoying as if they don't know why were avoiding them.

Have you called yet? Please let us know how you are!!!

Take care

Mindi