I guess you guys were right :(
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Yeah mine drinks vodka but I thought there was a good chance he could stop the secret drinking and drink like a normal person - I have no issue wtih getting a buzz on on the weekend personally so I figured he could just do that like the rest of us. He didn't mean that as in that you can't be an alcoholic if you only drink beer - just that my rule was no secret vodka and he was saying he only drank beer outside with my dad. He had 2 beers and 1 nonalcoholic beer - but I know that breathalyser works - is he the only person who it doesn't work for?!
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I really did not know for sure that he was an alcoholic though - hence allowing this time to prove he isn't one basically. I'm just shocked that someone could think that they could look at a breathalyser and deny the number is accurate - it's very odd. Like bat$h!t crazy level odd to stare at the number and claim it is wrong - 3 times. I need to do this to understnad what on earth is going on in my house - it isn't like I plan to live like this forever - just long enough to decide what I'm going to do - like a few more weeks basically. His parents arrive on Saturday and I need to speak to his mother about all of this. During the next few weeks, either he won't drink again or he will seem very odd and I will breathalyse him and see yet again that he is secretly drinking and his parents can see it then too and help me deal with this.
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So like what would he do if he turned on me?! At the moment, I am a perfect wife a perfect mother he loves me deeply and wants to fix this....so soon it will be I am a b with an itch who has ruined his life I guess?! Will he try to take my child?!
I'm just struggling to see that he is a different person to who he was.
I've drafted an email to his mother debating when to send it - clearl ythere's no point in letting him speak to them about it because he lies!!! I feel they need a warning bfore they arrive as to what is going on. Where on earth is this vodka now anyway?! I cannot understand where it could even be grrrr!!!!
I'm just struggling to see that he is a different person to who he was.
I've drafted an email to his mother debating when to send it - clearl ythere's no point in letting him speak to them about it because he lies!!! I feel they need a warning bfore they arrive as to what is going on. Where on earth is this vodka now anyway?! I cannot understand where it could even be grrrr!!!!
@StephEgan hoping you're well and healthy. If you've time, let us know how you're doing?
Steph.....if I have gotten the dates right, your husband's family must h ave arrived, by now....??
If so, I am wondering how it is going in your household?
I am assuming that your own parents have left, by now...?
We all care about you and your family and we do think about you. Just so you know.
If so, I am wondering how it is going in your household?
I am assuming that your own parents have left, by now...?
We all care about you and your family and we do think about you. Just so you know.
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