One step forward three steps back.
You can't relate to how he treats people because you wouldn't do things like that.
I had a colleague with an ex-husband who has spent his life skirting the law - and encouraged his sons to do the same. No joke - one day in the police blotter news, he had been arrested for driving without a license, son #1 for being a fugitive from justice, son # 2 for Schedule-something- drug possession. "It's only illegal if you get caught" was his motto. That's how he thought, that's how he lived. And his wife, who had married young and had expected to be married until one of them died, had a *really* hard time separating her life from his.
I didn't have children. I stayed with my alcoholic husband until he died. I don't recommend it, but it can be done. However, my husband and I rarely spoke to one another, and just led separate lives in the same house.
I had a colleague with an ex-husband who has spent his life skirting the law - and encouraged his sons to do the same. No joke - one day in the police blotter news, he had been arrested for driving without a license, son #1 for being a fugitive from justice, son # 2 for Schedule-something- drug possession. "It's only illegal if you get caught" was his motto. That's how he thought, that's how he lived. And his wife, who had married young and had expected to be married until one of them died, had a *really* hard time separating her life from his.
I didn't have children. I stayed with my alcoholic husband until he died. I don't recommend it, but it can be done. However, my husband and I rarely spoke to one another, and just led separate lives in the same house.
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