Ugh he’s obnoxious
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pizza.....do you think that he might be somewhere on the spectrum---at a fairly high functioning level?
Though it shouldn't even matter. at this point---as the most important thing is not to diagnose him--but, rather, focus on your own welfare. That is the only thing you can do to protect yourself from his torment.
Though it shouldn't even matter. at this point---as the most important thing is not to diagnose him--but, rather, focus on your own welfare. That is the only thing you can do to protect yourself from his torment.
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Originally Posted by pizza67 
Because of the censoring, I can’t tell what you said. When they were younger, he sometimes had them
watch “presentations” on working together as a family in faith, doing chores, etc. Truly bizarre.
watch “presentations” on working together as a family in faith, doing chores, etc. Truly bizarre.
And yes, that's bizarre.
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Originally Posted by dandylion
pizza.....do you think that he might be somewhere on the spectrum---at a fairly high functioning level?
Though it shouldn't even matter. at this point---as the most important thing is not to diagnose him--but, rather, focus on your own welfare. That is the only thing you can do to protect yourself from his torment.
Though it shouldn't even matter. at this point---as the most important thing is not to diagnose him--but, rather, focus on your own welfare. That is the only thing you can do to protect yourself from his torment.
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pizza........Oh. I was just wondering.
Wow....that is a lot of pathology to be subjected to in an ongoing basis. I marvel at how wearing and exhausting this must be. I speculate that it must be impossible to function at your optimum or to thrive in this shared atmosphere.
Wow....that is a lot of pathology to be subjected to in an ongoing basis. I marvel at how wearing and exhausting this must be. I speculate that it must be impossible to function at your optimum or to thrive in this shared atmosphere.
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Although SR is a safe place to vent, it might be more helpful for you to put the focus back on you. Your husband sounds like a very unhealthy person and yet you seem to be shocked each time he shows you that. Are you trying to validate your feelings with your threads?
From my own experience, I found it very difficult to get healthy while living with a toxic a person. I had slowly became just as toxic. That took some time to realize. It was hard to admit that I too was part of the problem.
I ask this with respect and concern....what are you doing to for YOU to get healthy???
From my own experience, I found it very difficult to get healthy while living with a toxic a person. I had slowly became just as toxic. That took some time to realize. It was hard to admit that I too was part of the problem.
I ask this with respect and concern....what are you doing to for YOU to get healthy???
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Originally Posted by LoveMeNow
Are you trying to validate your feelings with your threads?
[/QUOTE]I ask this with respect and concern....what are you doing to for YOU to get healthy???[/QUOTE]
a bunch of stuff
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Originally Posted by LoveMeNow
I ask this with respect and concern....what are you doing to for YOU to get healthy???
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Originally Posted by pizza67
a bunch of stuff
Let us know what you are doing and how it is going. Many of us are struggling with unruly ducks so would love some moral support.
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