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Old 12-16-2019, 09:29 AM
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He has passed

My brother passed early Saturday, I was fortunate that I got to see and speak with him.
I told him to remember what George Harrison always said , "All Things Must Pass"
He grinned and said "That's really true for me isn't it"?

That song had special meaning between the two of us.
RIP Timmy

I love you
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Old 12-16-2019, 09:33 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad to know that you were able to have a few days with him being clear headed. (((HUGS)))
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Old 12-16-2019, 10:57 AM
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I'm glad you could be with him and share love. That's what doesn't pass.
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:05 AM
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Littlesister…..I send my condolences....and, I am sure that he knew that he was loved.....
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:12 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Littlesister.
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:13 AM
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Thank you all, yes - he knew he was loved.
Sadly he could not love himself enough to stop drinking.
He was a gentle soul who never had a bad word to say
He told me once that he would rather someone break his bones than hurt his feelings "Because at least bones heal"

Poor sweetie
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:31 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss!
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:41 AM
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Be sure to take time out for you during
this time. Addiction takes out so many
before their time and that is truly sad
because there are so much help available
for the asking, taking and applying.

So sorry to hear of your loss. Stay strong
and positive.
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:48 AM
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I am so very, very sorry for your loss. You are in my heart. Sending lots of hugs.
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Old 12-17-2019, 05:37 PM
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Adding my condolences for your loss, little sister. Truly sorry.
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Old 12-17-2019, 05:46 PM
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My sincere condolences for the loss of your brother.
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Old 12-17-2019, 06:34 PM
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Im sorry little sister. He was very lucky to have you until his end. A lot of family members bail when things get tough, and this is the toughest. Im glad that you didnt. Wishing you peace this holiday season.
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Old 12-17-2019, 06:59 PM
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So sorry littlesister1.....my heart goes out to you...
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Old 12-17-2019, 07:05 PM
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I am so sorry.
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Old 12-18-2019, 03:46 AM
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I'm just so sorry for your loss, littlesister! You and he will be in my prayers.
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Old 12-18-2019, 05:04 AM
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So sorry for your families loss. Hold on tight to those good memories, it sounds like you have a lot of them 💗
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Old 12-18-2019, 08:58 AM
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Sorry for your loss, littlesister. Keep remembering the good times and the song.
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Old 12-20-2019, 08:21 AM
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Thank you one and all.
This has been the hardest time.
On the outs with one of my other brothers over something really dumb.

Have made all arrangements, it's so sad when someone you love has absolutely NOTHING to their name.

I keep reminding myself that he CHOSE to live this way
Nobody made him

Peace to all!
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