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Originally Posted by Dazedandconfus 
in my husbands company car compartment, he had a bottle of viagra....I don’t want to jump to conclusions but does that seem funny to you?
If that's not the case (ie: that's just not happening at home) then what is the date of the prescription, how many pills is it for and how many are missing.
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Viagra has no place ina work car unless there's something funny going on.
I'm sorry that bad things just keep on revealing themselves about your husband.
I really hope you can work out what to do for yourself soon.
D
I'm sorry that bad things just keep on revealing themselves about your husband.
I really hope you can work out what to do for yourself soon.
D
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I use Viagra.
It takes effect anywhere from 15 - 60 minutes and loses its effect over about 3-5 hours.
I highly doubt it is for your benefit if he keeps it in his work car unless he is sneaking in a pill just before coming home and jumping your bones fairly quickly.
I would keep my mouth shut and begin some snooping and if you suspect infidelity, consider stopping any unprotected sex. There is nothing wrong with snooping if you think there is something going on... it's for your own protection.
It takes effect anywhere from 15 - 60 minutes and loses its effect over about 3-5 hours.
I highly doubt it is for your benefit if he keeps it in his work car unless he is sneaking in a pill just before coming home and jumping your bones fairly quickly.
I would keep my mouth shut and begin some snooping and if you suspect infidelity, consider stopping any unprotected sex. There is nothing wrong with snooping if you think there is something going on... it's for your own protection.
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Men can be very sensitive about any problems down there, for sure! Drinking by itself can cause ED. Prolonged, excessive drinking can lead to liver disease, and that can *surely* lead to ED. The question is, is he taking it for you or to please someone else....
I agree that if you even remotely suspect there is infidelity, snoop. Check your state laws, but you could put a GPS app on his phone while he's drunk and passed out or put a GPS device on his car. When it comes to STDs, I'd take no chances. That **** can stay with you for a lifetime.
I agree that if you even remotely suspect there is infidelity, snoop. Check your state laws, but you could put a GPS app on his phone while he's drunk and passed out or put a GPS device on his car. When it comes to STDs, I'd take no chances. That **** can stay with you for a lifetime.
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I'm in my 60's and use it and love it.
I no issues at all.
W has gotten accustomed to it.
I get the 100mg tablets from overseas pharmacies. Cheap and good.
Maybe I am in the minority but I have no embarrassment about having a harder time to... ya know.
Wife at first had a problem that it wasn't "natural".
Screw that. It works to make love making stressless for me so better for her.
Thing is, when you take it, you get horny pretty quickly and feel like a teenager again... so if he isn't jumping your bones he is either using it with someone else or using it to masterbate. I do that sometimes.
Best recreational drug ever made for older men.
I no issues at all.
W has gotten accustomed to it.
I get the 100mg tablets from overseas pharmacies. Cheap and good.
Maybe I am in the minority but I have no embarrassment about having a harder time to... ya know.
Wife at first had a problem that it wasn't "natural".
Screw that. It works to make love making stressless for me so better for her.
Thing is, when you take it, you get horny pretty quickly and feel like a teenager again... so if he isn't jumping your bones he is either using it with someone else or using it to masterbate. I do that sometimes.
Best recreational drug ever made for older men.
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Dazedandconfused....
The other issue you have alluded to here is that the A in our lives can have secrets. I am finding that.
I once found a receipt in our driveway for a credit card purchase at a restaurant. Turns out he had lunch with a female friend.
I wasn't annoyed that he had lunch, or that the friend is female, but that he didn't mention he was going to be doing it, and didn't tell me about it afterwards.
This sort of thing destroys trust.
My AH raises important things for discussion with me via sms. I suspect he is too immature to talk through the issues face to face.
How are you going?
The other issue you have alluded to here is that the A in our lives can have secrets. I am finding that.
I once found a receipt in our driveway for a credit card purchase at a restaurant. Turns out he had lunch with a female friend.
I wasn't annoyed that he had lunch, or that the friend is female, but that he didn't mention he was going to be doing it, and didn't tell me about it afterwards.
This sort of thing destroys trust.
My AH raises important things for discussion with me via sms. I suspect he is too immature to talk through the issues face to face.
How are you going?
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Originally Posted by Dee74
Viagra has no place ina work car unless there's something funny going on.
I'm sorry that bad things just keep on revealing themselves about your husband.
I really hope you can work out what to do for yourself soon.
D
I'm sorry that bad things just keep on revealing themselves about your husband.
I really hope you can work out what to do for yourself soon.
D
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Originally Posted by Eauchiche
Viagra users have been known to have sudden onset single sided deafness, higher than the general population.
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