Verbal abuse
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Verbal abuse
his tirade today has now gone on for hours. Every thing is my fault. From 20 years ago, to today, he has anger at me for so many things. He’s rambling about how when we get divorced that’s it. He’s not coming back. I’m silent. He’s begging me to respond. I can only hope that he signs the papers soon and leaves never to return as he promises.
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i meant today...you said he has gone on for hours...and you have posted updates of his latest stunts and rants during that time. my point was you did not have to sit there and listen to him go on and on. for hours. by giving him an audience, it feeds his inner ranter.
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Ugh. That is what they do. The blame game, blame everyone else for all of their problems and don't admit to anything. It's classic but you do not have to participate.
Don't forget the three C's: You did not Cause it, you cannot Control it, and you cannot Cure it.
Big hugs!
Don't forget the three C's: You did not Cause it, you cannot Control it, and you cannot Cure it.
Big hugs!
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Originally Posted by Ariesagain 
Yesterday you posted something about getting a room somewhere?
Go. No reason to be his wailing wall. It doesn’t do either one of you any good.
Clean sheets, quiet, Netflix, room service. Go, yes?
Go. No reason to be his wailing wall. It doesn’t do either one of you any good.
Clean sheets, quiet, Netflix, room service. Go, yes?
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