Mean
 

I love the Taylor Swift song Mean- especially the last verse. Now that I am out of the marriage 3 years- it is exactly how I see XAH- in a bar- same old bitter things and nobody's listening. and my life has changed so much- I am no longer tolerating abuse in my life. never again! and although I am surrounded by loving family and friends, not one is alcoholic, and I am treated with caring and kindness consistently. It is so good on the other side. You don't have to put up with MEAN!

Right on!!!! Me I'm just out of a toxic 23 year marriage. So now its me time. First things First get booze out of my life period. 61 days to be exact. I am back to square one with all else. Looking for work. Living at folks house. Which I am blessed to be able to do so. It will be alright. Do the right thing the rest will follow.