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Originally Posted by AnvilheadII 
well, all of you are already damaged from living in active addiction.
that he can manage to do school runs because you think he is sober enough to do so is NOT parenting.
that he can cook dinner sometimes is not parenting.
parenting is putting the children first, always. engaging with them, not a gin bottle. having great concern for their safety, security, mental well being, environment. being plugged in 24/7/365.
parenting is not optional. or only when convenient. or sober enough.
we all asks for signs. you just got them in spades. this is your chance. yours and the children. make a break for it, run like hell.
that he can manage to do school runs because you think he is sober enough to do so is NOT parenting.
that he can cook dinner sometimes is not parenting.
parenting is putting the children first, always. engaging with them, not a gin bottle. having great concern for their safety, security, mental well being, environment. being plugged in 24/7/365.
parenting is not optional. or only when convenient. or sober enough.
we all asks for signs. you just got them in spades. this is your chance. yours and the children. make a break for it, run like hell.
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