Originally Posted by trailmix

I think that's a good point, discerning whether it was asking for reassurance of if you were just making the right decision for yourself. From what you have posted it sounds like the latter.

Don't look at that as a negative. Better to question yourself than just react all the time with no particular plan?

That's how you grow, by questioning yourself (within reason, you don't want to over-analyze, but if you do you will need glasses and a pipe probably - oh and a desk light and a fireplace).