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Old 02-21-2019, 02:15 AM   #41 (permalink)
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Old 02-25-2019, 11:16 AM   #42 (permalink)
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Another bad night not as bad as the previous night. He doesn't see how annoying and what a bad example his mumbling and complaining is. It's almost like he doesn't think it's happening. The children and I are forced to listen to it unless I leave the house with them but the weather's to bad to travel. We stayed distracted as best we could. I don't understand why it's happening as often. It's all leading me to an exit.

HH- don't fight it this time, let it happen and be bold. Let the relationship go. and it will all fall into place eventually. Hugs!
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I'm getting out of debt. It's getting smaller. Last night I asked husband "how do we improve our relationship?" He got mad and gaslighted me. I didn't Jade. I saw it for what it was. Respecting the status quo and me making changes...Yes, I need to make *changes* because he won't.

It is much easier to get out of debt than to be in a relationship that just doesn't work.
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Amen!!!! Good for you!

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I'm getting out of debt. It's getting smaller. Last night I asked husband "how do we improve our relationship?" He got mad and gaslighted me. I didn't Jade. I saw it for what it was. Respecting the status quo and me making changes...Yes, I need to make *changes* because he won't.

It is much easier to get out of debt than to be in a relationship that just doesn't work.
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Yes, money doesn't talk back, although it would be great if it said, you know what you need more, here it is lol

Sounds like you are at a stalemate with him.
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