Spending Christmas alone this year
I like the idea of feeding the wildlife. The end of the year can be a peaceful time to reflect and plan for the next year. The worst things are New Year's eve parties. The few times I have gone to those, I have always felt terrible afterwards, especially when they start singing Auld Lang Syne... it feels like someone has died or something. I like to honor the religious aspect of Christmas, make some nice food, buy myself a nice present.
I watch that one every year. I try to wait until Christmas Eve, but sometimes I don't make it that long. It supposedly takes place in a fake city, Holmond, which is based on Hammond, Indiana, which might as well be a suburb of Chicago. It was actually filmed in Cincinnati, but all those Midwestern towns looked the same. I grew up in a suburb of Chicago during the time that story takes place, so in addition to it being a clever story, visually it's exactly the way I remember my childhood. The desks in the classroom, the coal furnaces, brick houses and back alleys complete with local bullies, and shopping for a tree in the Christmas tree lots that would spring up in all the vacant properties. The flat tire scene nails it. When was the last time you had a flat tire? And I remember how adept everyone was at changing a tire in record time because it was so common place. I also had a Red Rider BB gun, but it was an old one that no longer shot BBs that someone had given me. The electrical outlets overloaded with adapters that would blow fuses down in the basement were part of the house I lived in. Talk about nostalgia.
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Oh my yes, I can relate to not wanting to be around others who don't know your situation, and how alone it makes you feel. I'm in the middle of deciding whether to subject myself to that. I don't blame you at all--it sounds like a good choice that you made for YOU.
Bananapancakes, "A Christmas Story" is probably one of my FAVORITE Christmas movies! I just saw on TV that people can rent the actual house from the movie for $3,000/night. I think the inner child in each of us can relate to Ralphie. It would not be an actual Christmas without that movie playing. "NOTTAFINFGA!" I'm giggling as I type this.
https://www.bumpushouse.com/rooms/a-...story-house-2/
Good news LPS, it's only nine hundred and ninety nine dollars a night! (for some reason it decided those digits were not to be displayed so I had to type the words instead lol)
https://www.bumpushouse.com/rooms/a-...story-house-2/
https://www.bumpushouse.com/rooms/a-...story-house-2/
Good Grief! It's says it comes with a flat screen TV.
Some people near my sister's neighborhood have a house reminiscent of Ralphie's with the same 3 windows on the front porch, and for Christmas, they don't have a tree, or decorate the house, but they put the leg lamp in the front window. You can buy them for $139.99 at amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Full-Size-Lam...A9WK4HP2D7CRXX
https://www.amazon.com/Full-Size-Lam...A9WK4HP2D7CRXX
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haha I love how this thread has digressed into a back and forth about the movie "A Christmas Story" and Im all for it!!
I would be tempted to buy that lamp for maybe 10 bucks...but then again it sure is ugly.
I would be tempted to buy that lamp for maybe 10 bucks...but then again it sure is ugly.
More authentic version from the original site:
The Leg Lamp | A Christmas Story House
That is a great lamp ! lol!
I haven't seen The Christmas Story yet!! Why have I not seen this!?! The trailer looks great!
My top xmas movies are usually National Lampoon's and Scroodged. And I like to keep It's a Wonderful Life running on the projector whilst I potter around
I haven't seen The Christmas Story yet!! Why have I not seen this!?! The trailer looks great!
My top xmas movies are usually National Lampoon's and Scroodged. And I like to keep It's a Wonderful Life running on the projector whilst I potter around
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The beautiful European city part makes me happy for you and a bit jealous! When I went to live in Italy for a bit we arrived in Rome during Epiphany and it was just the beginning of my love affair. Some of my friends are in NY (I know, Stateside!), Paris, Rome...
Also, I can relate to the mixed feelings - I am grateful to spend this particular Christmas and NY with my sweet husband, and we've got pretty simple plans from today thru 26th then our usual at home NYE
I've spent a good one or two alone - going through a separation once.
Wishes for a happy, sober, grateful time for you!
Good news LPS, it's only nine hundred and ninety nine dollars a night! (for some reason it decided those digits were not to be displayed so I had to type the words instead lol)
https://www.bumpushouse.com/rooms/a-...story-house-2/
https://www.bumpushouse.com/rooms/a-...story-house-2/
Just read what MCEsaint said about people who live in our hearts. What a nice thought. The older I get the closer I feel to those that are no longer in my life. It is bittersweet.
I think it's meant to appeal to those who like to brag about throwing money around carelessly. It's a way to say, "I have so much money, and can flush it down the toilet." It can be defended by claiming you bought a memory or made a pilgrimage.
Here's something that people actually do along the same lines for a cost of $14, and gives you the same thrill:
The TV series Breaking Bad was filmed on location in Albuquerque, and Walter White's House was a house actually owned by someone who rented it to the film industry. After the series was over, college age pranksters took to sneaking up at night and throwing a whole pizza onto the roof. This becomes a meaningful memory of something you did that was out of the ordinary. It also marks you as being part of an elite crowd that followed the series closely.
Here's something that people actually do along the same lines for a cost of $14, and gives you the same thrill:
The TV series Breaking Bad was filmed on location in Albuquerque, and Walter White's House was a house actually owned by someone who rented it to the film industry. After the series was over, college age pranksters took to sneaking up at night and throwing a whole pizza onto the roof. This becomes a meaningful memory of something you did that was out of the ordinary. It also marks you as being part of an elite crowd that followed the series closely.
There is a house close to where I live that puts the lamp in their window every year. I change my route going home just to see it. Christmas Story is my families VERY FAVORITE movie! We went and saw it as a play a few years ago, it was great!
I am a little different of a person. I LOVE spending time alone. That is totally fine with me. I do however see my family and spend lots of time with them on a regular basis. When my kids were little I got so sick of running around. I hate that we lost sight of the real reason for Xmas which is to celebrate Jesus's birth.
I do plan to go to my parents, however, my father has dementia and there will be extended family there, so it will be stressful. XMas Eve my kids go with their father. We will meet up for the midnight service at church which is a touching and beautiful experience. So XMas eve I am on my own, which I really prefer.
Make the most of it! Relax, watch movies, eat a few good treats, and enjoy!
I am a little different of a person. I LOVE spending time alone. That is totally fine with me. I do however see my family and spend lots of time with them on a regular basis. When my kids were little I got so sick of running around. I hate that we lost sight of the real reason for Xmas which is to celebrate Jesus's birth.
I do plan to go to my parents, however, my father has dementia and there will be extended family there, so it will be stressful. XMas Eve my kids go with their father. We will meet up for the midnight service at church which is a touching and beautiful experience. So XMas eve I am on my own, which I really prefer.
Make the most of it! Relax, watch movies, eat a few good treats, and enjoy!
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