Sapphire44

So the ex boyfriend has a court date after the assault 4 court date. Well i tell him the date and time and give the mail to him. He calls me on the date of court. Needs bus schedule direction to work. The first words out of my mouth are why are you not at court. Dumb ass did not go. So the other day. He was spending with me. And he got picked up on the warrent. So i letvhis brothee know. He got arrested on the warrent. His brother says he had no court date and warent. Then threatens me. What a dumb ass. That family is full of addicts. So i tell the brothers girlfriend the time he has and why he got arrested. And that im not tolorating threats for doing the right thing. To go away i documented everything. So we were working on us and this arrest interfered. But atleast it will be out of the way.

Nata1980

Sounds like staying away from this mess is the best course of action

He is your ex - you could cut all communication, he is a grown up and should keep up with his court appearances.

maia1234

S,
I agree with Nata. I think you need to step back and stop trying to help the addicts in your life. Its called minding your side of the street. Let these people figure it out on their own.

Bernadette

from Nata1980:"...he is a grown up and should keep up with his court appearances."

And with the bus schedule for HIS work!

Sapphire44, yeah he and his family sound unstable. Keep yourself safe and sane!
Peace,
B

NYCDoglvr

And you're with him .............why?

hopeful4

How successful can working on a relationship with someone who cannot get themselves to court to stay out of jail possibly be??

I say this gently b/c I know it's painful, however, I hope you work on you!