He is at it again...Need Advice Please

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Old 07-18-2018, 01:54 PM
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Contact the paralegal! They are the ones who do all the processing and paperwork anyways!

Sending you HUGE hugs!
Thank you Hopeful4. I will be contacting her soon.
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Old 07-18-2018, 05:06 PM
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Hi mamabear... I don't have any other advice, but just want to say I'm thinking of you and am sorry you're going through this.

It gives me anxiety just reading it, and I dread the day I will have to go through this with my boys and their dad...

But it sounds like you've got this! Just keep breathing and stick to your guns!
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Old 07-18-2018, 05:18 PM
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Hi mamabear... I don't have any other advice, but just want to say I'm thinking of you and am sorry you're going through this.

It gives me anxiety just reading it, and I dread the day I will have to go through this with my boys and their dad...

But it sounds like you've got this! Just keep breathing and stick to your guns!
Thank you so much for the support : )
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Old 07-22-2018, 09:04 AM
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Hi mamabear!

"Self-care is a very active and powerful choice to engage in activities that enable an optimal level of overall health."

Important question in the recovery toolbox:

What am I doing for self-care today?

Once upon a time (it may have been yesterday ) I was overwhelmed and sometimes didn't remember what was in my recovery toolbox or what skills I was gaining, yet, again and again, God/Higher Power/Life would send everything I needed. Asking for an open heart, eyes to see, and strength to follow a new path helps to open up the day at hand in new ways.
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Old 07-25-2018, 09:09 PM
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Hi mamabear, I'm just catching up on some SR reading and came across this thread. How did things work out on the weekend? I hope it was uneventful. Thinking of you.
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Old 07-25-2018, 09:52 PM
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Hi mamabear, I'm just catching up on some SR reading and came across this thread. How did things work out on the weekend? I hope it was uneventful. Thinking of you.
Hi Sasha, he ended up texting on Saturday asking to speak to kid. But we were at a family function. I gave kid my phone when we got home to call him. His dad answered and wished him a Happy Birthday. I didn't hear from at all on Sunday. Thank Goodness. So it wasn't a bad weekend as I had anticipated : )
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Old 07-26-2018, 06:21 AM
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I am so glad that it was a good weekend after all! So many times they are just all talk!
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:33 AM
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Sounds like it all worked out well. Sounds like Dad was just pushing the limits a little bit to see what would happen (and he found out).
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Old 07-27-2018, 02:17 PM
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Sounds like it all worked out well. Sounds like Dad was just pushing the limits a little bit to see what would happen (and he found out).
Yes, he was pushing the limits. I'm glad I stick to my guns. I'm learning as I go : )
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Old 07-27-2018, 02:17 PM
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I am so glad that it was a good weekend after all! So many times they are just all talk!
It did turn out to be a great weekend. I'm learning how to stick to my boundaries and so far it's working out good for me and my kids.
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Old 07-28-2018, 06:24 PM
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I would text back: "Suggest you contact your lawyer about this".
Impersonal, keeps to terms of agreement.
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Old 07-29-2018, 03:08 PM
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I would text back: "Suggest you contact your lawyer about this".
Impersonal, keeps to terms of agreement.
Lucky for me he doesn't have a lawyer.
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