Wanted to share this gem from Al Anon today
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Wow, that's powerful. One thing that came up at Al Anon the other day, was one of the members talking about her brother, who was a dr and an alcoholic. He finally got sober in his fifties. And, he said to her "as long as the alcoholic is alive, there's hope they will get better."
My X drank secretly, spending money from our retirement savings, almost from the time we first married. Once I became aware there was a problem and asked him to get help, he pretended to go to AA meetings for years--years. Since I hadn't done anything for myself, I didn't make any progress and didn't want to admit that nothing was getting better. After finally accepting that I had to make changes in my own life if I wanted to be happy and healthy, I divorced him after 19 years married and 21 years together. And he still drinks.
There is hope, but that didn't mean I needed to waste my own life away waiting for what might or might not happen w/his.
And the original post is one of those funny/not funny but oh so true things that recovery is so full of...
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